I have been out of the community for a long time but recently I found myself snapping a rubber band against my wrist and making rewards for myself if I had been good and finished my chores, it seems obvious in hindsight that something has been missing.
About me:
I’m 40 y/o executive assistant. A people-pleaser in all aspects of my life. I am a creative- working with all kinds of mediums. I like gaming, reading, and baking. I’m caucasian, blue-eyed, brunette, tall(5’11”), and plus sized(Over 300lbs)- with a large tummy and ass. No, I will not immediately send you nudes. I know my body type is a fetish and while attraction is essential in any relationship, I don’t want my weight to be the cornerstone of connection.
I like a soft Dom in my day-to-day. I love caring for and nurturing; I am looking for the same in return. I do need a little extra guidance and help with decisions during the day, I can be easily overwhelmed, and having a D provide structure and instruction makes me thrive. I love the security and protection in the word “mine”.
I like banter, intelligence, wit. I can be bratty, which usually derives from insecurities within myself. I can be shy for the same reason. I am ultimately submissive and very subservient when the relationship is fostered. My quickness to obedience can come from a heavy hand. I like a bit of pain, marking, biting, spanking, and primal behaviors. I need a D that radiates power but exercises patience. But we can explore that as we get to know each other.
If any of this seems like a good fit for you, send me a message. Genuine connection, respect, and honesty are a must. Thanks for reading.
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