This might be a long shot considering my inexperience in kink but I thought Iâd post anyways. I am a 23 y/o, overweight, virgin looking to be degraded. Itâs not something I have ever explored with anyone so I would like some sort of buildup to it I guess? So that I donât end up crying like a little baby and blocking you because Iâd get overwhelmed and canât handle it. Just to reiterate, I donât want your first message to be âyeah u fat dirty pig ur so worthlessâ or a nude, or a one word message/sentence please. I want a long term dynamic. Iâd like to get to know your interests, what turns you on about this kink, what other kinks you could see us exploring, etc. In turn, you could get to know more about me as well, maybe my insecurities, fears, embarrassing kinks and fantasies that you eventually end up using against me.
Out of kink Iâm just a normal, young adult trying to find my footing after being in school for most of my life. I like journaling, spending a lot time in nature, planning things out in the future so that my career doesnât suck the soul out of me. Please tell me more about yourself in your first message so that I know youâre also a normal guy (or girl!!).
I could see this dynamic going two ways. The first way would be a slow buildup and me turning into your fully controlled degradee â maybe incorporating aspects of a M/s or pet/owner type of thing. By the time you are done with me, youâd have renamed me/given me a more fitting name and pronouns (it, slave, pig, etc), have me on an masturbation schedule, make me watch porn and hypnosis to make my brain weaker and more malleable, etc. I am always reminded of my worthlessness. The second way this could go is that I am somewhat of your friend who you casually degrade when you like. There are days where you are sweet, kind, and treat me like a person but there are other days where you do a 180 and tease me, belittle me, remind me of my inferiority. Maybe itâs a mix of both. I am down to listen to your ideas as well!
I hope I am making some sort of sense. Some limits would be face pictures, anything to do with hole stretching, watersports/scat/toilet, breeding, anal, illegal stuff, blackmail, public stuff. I would prefer if you are experienced, older than me, and you see me as an equal outside of kink (please no actual misogynists or conservatives!). I am mostly looking into being degraded on my intelligence. Maybe my looks but that would be something we can chat about once I feel like you have fully earned my trust. If you are in the PNW maybe we can also explore this in real life as well. Who knows. Please write your favorite fruit in your message so I know you read this fully. I look forward to chatting with you! âșïž
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