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I’m looking for someone who is actually local to talk to and get to know and build up a long term relationship with, both in a dynamic and out. I’m Demi, so I have to get to know you before we get sexual. I might get teasing, but that’s it. I really want a good boy who is a service sub. I’m not into micromanaging, I want you to be willing to learn my expectations and do your best to meet them. I do like things my specific way, but I usually have good reason for that.
I want someone local because I love things like being able to card my fingers through your hair and actually tease you. Tbh, I’m kind of terrible at long distance. I don’t always want to be messaging, I love being able to just exist in a space with someone. I want to be able to cuddle you close and smack your butt and all those cute things. I do want an actual long term relationship. I also want a flr. Although I think the “women are naturally superior” thing is hot, I don’t actually believe it, and I don’t believe my partner is less than me. We just have different skills and wants and needs, and yours include choosing to surrender to me. I’d also prefer someone at least 25. Experience level is completely irrelevant, I don’t care of you’ve been in 50 dynamics or none.
I’m not really into piv. It can happen, I’m not against it, but I do want someone who understands that it’s at least not the norm for us. I enjoy chastity, I love locking my cute subby up. I also enjoy hypnosis, some bondage, some beatings, pegging. A little sweet humiliation and degradation. I dabble in a lot, so ask me about your kinks, lol. I’m not a mommy domme, but I am very sweet. I don’t want to be mean. I won’t scream at you all the time. But if hearing things like “I know it’s so difficult, but you can be a good boy and suffer for me more, can’t you?” and “awww, you’re such a good needy little slut for me, I love it” makes you feel some kind of way, I’d love to hear from you. I’m also a bit condescending. I like telling my sub to not worry their pretty little head about it and things like that. “I know thinking is so difficult, but that’s why I’m here, you can just focus on being a good boy for me.”
More about me: I’m not very close with my family, but I do have some friends I’m very close with. Almost all of my friends are kinky as well, so they will, at least to some extent, know we’re in a dynamic. I won’t top and tell, unless it’s something we agree to (I’m not against a little humiliation, as long as everyone consents), but they will be aware at least of the dynamic itself. I’m a homebody, and I’d love either another homebody, or someone who is willing to accept that a solid 90% of the time or more, I’m not going along with your extrovert stuff lol. I’m happy at home with my cats. You can either join me there, or go, burn off your golden retriever or extrovert energy. I’ll join you when, if, and to the extent that I feel up to it. I like my video games, I like my quiet hobbies like sewing and making soap. I hope that you have hobbies of your own. If you’ve read this far, please include your favorite dessert in your message. I’m from Georgia originally, so that southern accent does have a tendency to show up on occasion. Especially if I’m reminiscing, tired, or mad. I’m not religious, and I do have some religious trauma, as well as some trauma from my kind of unique childhood. I’m working through my baggage, have been for years. But it’s a process, and some of it is better at sticking around than the rest of it. I do what I can with that. I’m only human, and my experiences have shaped who I am and how I perceive the world around me. I’d prefer to talk than to scream, I’d rather explain and try to work through it than walk away. If you’re still here, tell me if you prefer tea or coffee. I’m a strange mix of sheltered and worldly. I also dabble in psychology as a hobby, and some of my friends call me a human tarot deck, so prepare for the call outs. They will happen the more comfortable I get with you. I also really do care about the happiness of my partner. Anyways, I look forward to hearing from you.