I’m searching for an all consuming love. Where I need you like I need air. I want you to be mine, heart, body, mind, soul. I will be yours.

Yes, I am a romantic. I blame reading too much growing up. I am a 34 year old lawyer living in the Bay area seeking my other half (obviously). I am intellectual, loving, affectionate, emotional and empathetic.

I am looking for a partner who I respect and communicates well. Someone to go to weddings and parties with and bring to meet the family for Christmas. To stare at as she walks down the aisle to me and knows I’m undressing her in my head. My need for you will be insatiable and every day. During the day you may be opening presents with my cute little niece. But as soon as I can I’ll pull you in close and kiss you, every bit of you, and fuck you in ways that leave us both breathless and wanting nothing more than to hold each other. And wanting more. I’m kinky, I have many fantasies and will have many more inspired by you and I want to spend decades exploring every one.

So you know I’m a reader. I’ve read about 5 books or so this week, but I’m a ginger so sometimes I’ll also not read at all for months. I’m also introspective. I have a gregarious, outgoing, party loving side of me but haven’t really used that side in the past few years. I absolutely love to travel and seek adventures. I’ve skied in the Alps, been caving in Puerto Rico, sky diving in Turkey and snorkeled all over Asia. I want to travel so many places and have so many more adventures with you (you don’t have to do everything I do of course).

I love to cook and eat delicious food and a whole day spent in bed with you eating and fucking and talking would be a day well spent. And there’s nothing I want more than a partner to do the things I love with.

Touch is my love language. Holding your hand, wrapping you up in my arms, caressing your cheek, holding you as you fall asleep every night are all ways I will express my love. I want someone who does the same, who reaches for my hand when we’re at a party or at dinner, wraps her arm in mine walking down the street, who needs to kiss me, yearns for my hands on her, aches for me inside her.

I’ve wanted this for a long time. I’ve searched and searched, and waited for the right partner. I haven’t found her yet. If you message me you better want a love for the ages, a love like I have described. Please treat your first message like it is the first thing you will ever say to the person who becomes the love of your life. It’s a love story baby, just say yes.