Hi! I’m a sub looking for a long term dom. I am a switch and have experience with both sides but there’s just something about giving yourself to the right person, I’ve been dying to scratch that itch lol.

A little about me:

I’m definitely a shy person and need a bit of time to come out my shell. Personality wise I've been told I'm very easy going and have a very chill vibe. I’ve been described as having orange cat energy but I'm not sure how true that is. I love to be silly but also know when it's time to be serious.

I have a lot of hobbies and interests, so I always have a lot to say on any given topic. I do have adhd which sort of makes my thoughts jump around but I promise I'll try to stay on topic lol. Some things I enjoy are; cooking, baking, anime, gaming, gardening, collecting mugs, candle making and camping/hiking. I'm the type of person who also enjoys what their friends are into atm. Want to get into ghosting hunting? I'll reluctantly follow. Want to start 17th century baking? I'm your girl.

A few other things to mention:

• I am ethically non mong with one partner but they will not be involved (they 🍦)
• I am 5’10 and plus sized
• I’m not white https://imgur.com/TMiICVX

Kinks

So, I have about 10 years of experience and I definitely know what I like. I have a large collection of kinks and I’m always up for trying something new or pleasing my partner with something I’ve never done before. Here are just a few that I like off the top of my head:

• Humiliation
• Bondage
• Degradation
• Hucow
• Spanking
• Pet play
• Age play/Cgl
• Orgasm control/denial
• cnc
• Impact play
• Water sports
• Rp and outfits

There are def more but we can get into it later lol

Limits-

• Anything illegal
• Cutting/blood
• Scat/vomit
• Sounding
• Race play
• blackmail
• cuckqueen
• cream pie (for penis owners)

What I’m looking for:

• A Dom/switch
• Between 20-45
• Preferably an irl dynamic
• Also enm or poly or open to it
• D/D free with exception of 420 (I always take new test and ask for a new partner to take one as well, let’s be safe)
• Some experience preferred but new is ok too
• Respects consent and is knowledge about all the bdsm safety acronyms (GGG, RACK, SSC)
• kind, thoughtful, considerate, funny and we vibe

If you think we sound like a good fit let’s talk! I’m definitely looking for more friends in the lifestyle as well so don’t be scared to say hi 😊