I'm sane. Genuine. Honest and direct, no games. Respectful. Responsibly self-employed, with both kids and pets that haven't starved on me. Divorced, since that's usually the next question. I can hold a semi-intelligent, articulate conversation, using correct punctuation. No clothes hanging on the stationary bike so I likely won't collapse if we get up to something energetic. Jokes usually get a laugh, no burning desire to get to know a stranger by sending a picture of my penis...
What else? A dad bod that I'm working on (6'1", 205-ish) less hair than the ponytail days back in university. I'll listen to what you say, I won't tell you how to think and I'm confident enough not to pressure (or to creepily pursue if things don't work out).
I'm also an experienced Dom. For years, in both relationships and pure dynamics, was even a paid Dom for a bit back in the Craigslist days. No experience required, I'm comfortable exploring with someone new and enjoy discussing the theory behind the actions. No age preference though the majority of my partners have been younger.
Dominant or vanilla, this isn't a power trip for me - I think there are a lot of "Dom's" here that just dictate without understanding what or why someone is looking for the safety of control. I believe in strong communication, tailoring the experience to the specific curiosities of my Submissive, soft or sadistic, lifestyle or just dipping your foot into the pool. I've been able to explore a very wide range of kinks because I try to understand your path vs forcing one upon you. Control must be given, not taken from you.
If you've made it this far, thank you for reading... Reach out if we have something to discuss.
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