Hey! I’ve been lurking here for a bit and have wanted to message some people, but figured I’d have a better chance at finding that special someone by making my own post and seeing what happens!

About Me

I'm a 27-year-old man living in Mediterranean Europe (UTC timezone). I would say I'm generally nerdy, however I'm also very much into fitness and working out as part of my life. I studied computer science beforehand and on my day to day I currently work as a software developer for a company in the wind energy industry. I'm very ambitious and prioritize my work a lot, I want to be the best at what I do. You could consider me a gym rat, but I also enjoy practicing martial arts often, reading, watching TV shows/movies and playing an occasional video game. I don't drink alcohol, do drugs or smoke. However, I'm an absolute coffee lover and praise the almighty bean often. Physically, I'm 178cm tall, white, ~68kg and fit, dark brown hair and eyes, short beard, broad shoulders and nice jawline. I'm generally masculine in my day to day. I'd be happy to verify with you as well.

What type of person am I looking for?

I'm searching for someone that considers themselves a dominant leaning switch, where the dominant side is more focused on the gentle domme kind of style. Overall, though, I desire a partner that that is open and emotionally available to hopefully create and build something fun with. I don't want to rush anything, however if we both like each other and feel the same after some time then I'm also open to have something more serious. You need to be wanting to also want to have a more meaningful connection, as I believe it is very important for something long term to last. My age range in this search is 21-30. You need to be monogamous, as am I. When it comes to the location, I would prefer if you also lived in Europe. I would like to start off things online and, if we really like each other after a long time and have a strong emotional connection going, meeting sometime in the future.

As for physical traits, I would like you to be feminine and to be someone that also puts health and wellbeing a priority. I can't see myself be with someone that disregards the way they treat their body. Please note that this doesn't mean that you have to be fit. Being average is totally fine by me as long as you have a good mindset of things and take care of yourself.

NSFW preferences

Generally speaking, I prefer a dynamic where I can act submissive most of the time and switch when my partner is feeling more in the context of relieving its control over sometimes. I think this works really well with chastity, which is one of my kinks. If you are interested, we can talk better about it afterward, where we could discuss your side of how you would like the dynamic to be or how you envision things.

Speaking of kinks. Here is my kinklist

Some hard limits you might find a dealbreaker: Findom, Feminization, Pet play, Breath play, Anal (anything related to it), CEI, Slavery, Cuckholding, Watersports, Blood, Scat.

Wrapping up

If you feel like this resonates with what you want, feel free to drop me an orange envelope. I will be waiting for you! Tell me about yourself and what you are looking for in a partner. If you reply with a picture, I'll be happy to reply with one as well so that we get the physical aspect off the table right at the start. I'm available to chat off reddit after we get a little bit comfortable here

Thank you for reading :)