Okay, this is gonna be a long one, so thank you in advance for reading!
I am a 30 year old daddy dom, originally from Denmark, but now I am working remotely and travelling the world. It's a dream come true for me! Currently I am in Asia (timezone GMT 7) and expect to be travelling all of asia for the rest of the year, so that's why I am seeking a partner closer to this timezone, or at least willing to deal with the time difference. It would be a big plus if you enjoy travelling, as clearly it's a big part of my life.
Physically I am 188 cm tall (6'2"), white skin, got blondish-brown hair and a trimmed beard and glasses - Body wise I would describe myself as a dad-bod, fluffy but with muscles underneath. I have been told that my bright blue eyes are my best feature, and that I look like a giant soft teddy bear.
My hobbies include playing video games (although I can't play much while travelling), learning about history, go skiing in winter and swimming in the summer (I do scuba diving too!), watching TV shows, documentaries and listening to podcasts.
I generally am the type to have my life in order. I like to plan, organize and schedule everything, so that I can achieve my goals and be successful in life. So far it has worked fairly well.
As a daddy - I am extremely caring, supportive and sweet most of the time - I very much enjoy having a soft sub who I can goof around with and take care of. Preferably also someone who wants some guidance in her life, and wants a daddy to be a guide or mentor, and be the steady rock that she can use for support, knowing that I am there to take care of her when she needs it. I also would love to be able to talk about everything, play video games or watch TV shows together and whatever else we might come up with!
Kinks
However, just because I am sweet, that doesn't mean I cannot be firm when needed. I definitely enjoy handling bratty behaviour when needed, but I don't want it to be a constant rebellion. I put a LOT of effort into being a good daddy for my partner (and frankly I am very confident in my ability to be an amazing daddy :) ), and I don't want that energy to be spent on someone who does not appreciate it (or at least gives the outward impression that she does not appreciate it). If you're more of a good and obidient type girl, then I would love to hear from you!
I am also hoping that my future partner has a masochistic side to her, and appreciate a dom that isnβt afraid to get rough on her when the mood strikes. I definitely have a sadistic streak, so you would need to appreciate that aspect. Obviously, I put my important role as a responsible dom above everything else and keeping my little girl safe has to be a priority. An example of my sadistic kinks include CNC, Face slapping, spanking, choking, body writing, degrading, hair pulling, wax play, you probably get the point. If this is something that floats your boat, you should definitely let me know! Like everyone else, I have more kinks we can discuss later! All I ask is that you are open minded!
Obviously these things are only within what limits my partner might have, and I always respect a safeword being used. My responsibility as a dom obviously extends into aftercare, which is equally important, especially after a rough session. In fact, outside of the bedroom, you will find me one of the sweetest people around. Like hold your hand, nuzzle your hair, kiss your forehead until you almost get sick of me, kind of sweet.
Aside from that, hard limits include: scat, permanent damage, cheating, vomit, bad/lacking communication.
As for my partner, I have a preference towards someone shorter and younger than myself (age gaps are okay!). A cute face and beautiful hair are the features I find most attractive in a girl. :)
Lifestyle
In general I am looking for a partner who enjoys the contrasts in having a daddy that truly cares and is very loving in public, but rough behind closed doors, so to speak. It's not like this is set in stone, and I am hoping that we can adjust based on our common likes and dislikes, so that more or less rough/soft play becomes part of it, depending on your preferences.
Aside from that, I am a huge control freak. I like making rules and give tasks for my submissive to follow in her daily life, and for me, the more the better - Examples: Daily routines, diet control, picking out clothes for her, bedtime, chores, punishments, funishments, orgasm control, etc. However much control you are willing to give up. TPE, Freeuse and 24/7 dynamic are also very interesting kinks to me, but not necessary.
I also enjoy some clingyness from my partner, and I am also a bit clingy myself. I prefer being able to text, call, or chat daily, and that my partner has time for me to be part of her life. Of course, family, school/work, life is also very important, and a relationship should not hinder that. I have a quite busy life, but for the right woman, I can arrange my priorities so that she gets attention!
Lastly, I will add that I am fine with starting out online, but I want a relationship with the goal of meeting IRL eventually.
Last pointers:
I am not interested in poly relationships. I am not looking to share you, and you should not expect to share me either.
Like I mentioned earlier, timezones may be a problem, so I would prefer someone from asia/australian timezones. Europe may be fine, if you are free to talk during the daytime, but it's not ideal as I cannot be around in the evening EU time.
Not interested in a transgender partner, sorry. It's just not something I am into.
Please be sort of healthy mind and body. No substance abuse, untreated mental illnesses, extremely overweight etc.
So if you like what you read, and I didn't scare you away, please send me a PM, and let me know about yourself. Please describe where you are from, what you look like, and a bit about your hobbies or life! And maybe what interested you in my ad?
Hope to talk to you soon!
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