Hello, as I’m certain all but the newest subs to the life know, all Dom’s are a bit on the cocky side. We all think we are amazing and the best thing to happen to the world since the invention of the internet. But in my case it’s true, yes that’s right you have found what you’re looking for at last! I’m kidding, kinda.

A bit about me 34 years old as the title states, dark brown hair, glasses, most people like the way I look and who can blame them? I am a striking individual. Fairly tall at 6’3, broad shoulder and chest, with forearms that get commented on a surprising amount. We can swap a pic and see what you think yourself.

My thoughts on bdsm, it takes two or more depending on your preferred dynamic to dance this tango. The intro is slow and steady to the beat of the drum, getting to know one another to see if we enjoy another’s company outside of kink. As even in a dynamic I want to be able to appreciate who I dominate as a person, as well as a sub. Once that has been established and continues nicely, the dance may quicken to the rhythm of a beating heart. It all depends on us to decide what the right pace and tempo is for things.

Trust is the foundation upon what all dynamics are based upon, even if it’s as simple as trusting them to message back at the start. You build that trust together as you talk and engage and learn, slowly feeling it out. It’s up to the individual to decide when they trust and what it means to them.

I’m looking for a sub who is looking at themselves and sees the potential there, just needing the right hand to guide them and unlock the hidden secrets inside. I am a bit of a Daddy Dom caregiver type, with a professor vibe as I love to teach a sub about bdsm and life in general. If you love to learn, I will love to teach!

I may be looking for you specifically, who knows?

I’m flexible on looks, just as long as I think you’re cute.

Weight and height? It all depends on how you carry it and that you take care of yourself in general. I want some one who is healthy, you know you can be larger than some and still be healthy.

As long as you take care of yourself that is the important part.

What should you be like personality wise? Sweet, kind, caring. Have interests and hobbies, bdsm shouldn’t be your entire life. I want a sub who has dreams and passions, who’s driven not just by the desire to submit, but by the will to succeed at what they want to do! In other words I’m looking for a gal who is a fully functional human being.

Well if anything here strikes your fancy, message me, and we can see if there is a spark.