I'll keep this short and sweet, since lately it seems like most women aren't interested in playing with a guy in his late 50's (gasp!), but I wanted to give it a shot. If you're even remotely curious and want to know more, please chat or DM me and we can talk further. I may be up in years, but in my brain, I'm still a hot young 21 year old with a teasing, sarcastic type of humor, and kinky ideas, lol.

As the title says, I'm married and not changing that aspect. I'm seeking a sub or little (discreetly, private and zero-drama), so I would prefer someone who is also attached/married. I think we'll both have a better understanding of what we can bring to this dynamic, and how we can play together if we're facing similar struggles and needs. I'm open to single women, of course, but please just be okay with my situation and willing to work with it.

I'm an open and honest kind of guy, so ask me anything and I'll share.

I am experienced, and can play in either D/s or DDlg spectrums, and have done so in the past. I never treat any sub the same as I have in the past, since your needs and desires are going to be very unique to you, so I see my job as adjusting to what you're looking for. That said, among other things, I am into restraints, age play, forced, porn, degradation, humiliation, cnc/pseudo-cnc, cum play, teasing, aftercare, cuddling, physical intimacy, dirty talk, sexy clothes, nipple/breast play, and more. I'm a natural Dom, so I guess I lean more on the controlling and demanding side, but with a firm love of aftercare and praise for my sub/little. I'm open to any race, age, size, shape, and hair color. :)

Oh, and although primarily looking in San Diego, I'm open to anywhere near-ish (OC/IE/LA). I am happy to start online, but not looking for online only, as I need the physical side too.

Please reach out if interested! Let's chat, even if it goes nowhere, at least we took a shot.

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