I am a sub, sometimes sweet sometimes silly.
I am in an open relationship as I’m keen to live a spicy life. I’ve had a few dates since opening up the relationship but I know what I want and it’s feeling hard to find. I’m hot and sane but London is vast !! Previously I have enjoyed a 24/7 D/s dynamic in relationship and I am looking for something similar but more casual. I want a highly sex driven relationship, where we develop a dynamic that works for us and I can live in that most of the time when I’m with you. I grew up with a hardcore tumblr that I believe really shaped or at least unlocked my sexual preferences ! If you were in the same spaces we will probably enjoy each other. I am here for what I can only describe as a mental type of bdsm. I am a bit of a masochist but It’s less about fetish and whips and more about power play and mind control. I have a few different styles of submission that I enjoy depending on my/your mood - I love DDlg (more as something to work towards), ‘being seen’ as the depraved little slut I am , hypno and being bimbo silly, misogyny/trad wife stuff.

If you’re not someone I’d be friends with in normal life then I want to be cared for financially (as simple as you pay for the dates whilst we’re getting to know each other). The idea of being paid for and spoiled in exchange for complete submission really turns me on. I’m bi/pansexual. Have only ever explored much kink with men but I’d be interested to find a lover of any persuasion. Also love getting involved with couples if it’s a three way fit . Currently with my partner of 3 years who I love immensely and expect to be with forever. I will prioritise my relationship with him so if this is a problem for you or it feels icky then it’s not going to work out. I’m left wing and compassionate about others. Ideal is you’re the same, essential is obviously this is kink and not how you really like to treat women. I love food, being in nature, and going out and dancing to reset.