I’m a straight, male, novice sub from DFW looking (for now) a short-term relationship and power exchange for this week. Either local to #DFW or #online.

To tell you a bit about myself:

I’m 38, married kids (though they’re all out of town for the next week). White, 5’8”, brown hair, beard, large framed and overweight with a few physical limitations due to a previous back injury.

I’ve done some self-denial and light self-torture in the past with porn, a few challenge dares, and lots of web-teases, but have found those lacking and have recently stepped out of my comfort zone and sought interactions with others in the community.

I’ve only had the privilege to serve one Mistress, who has 24/7 dominated me over the last week. She is a wonderful gentle Domme and has helped me through much of my anxiety about “stepping into the light” (or darkness, depending on who you ask), and separating any “romanticism” of the idea of submission with the reality of it put into practice. This has greatly helped shape my perceptions of what it means to truly submit, and I have found so much fulfillment and joy in serving someone.

Overall, I am a sincere, dedicated sub who likes to get to help people. My primary kink is people-pleasing: I get fulfillment out of helping make others happier. I’m also very conscientious, motivated, and determined the succeed in whatever I put my mind to. I can be teased and denied, left sexually frustrated, have my body abused, and I can still be a person whom you can talk to and will listen happily, or even vent on about both sexual and non-sexual topics. I have a number of interests of my own and I like to share experiences and learn more about others’, not to mention a healthy sense of humor that leans on the dry, witty, ironic (and some might say a little dark) side, and I very much enjoy good banter. This being the case, trust and honesty are HUGE for me to be able to open up fully, and we will need to earn that from each other before we move forward.

I am looking to find a Domme to serve who can also continue to train me, help refine my kinks, enjoy the benefits of my service and obedience, and develop a good rapport. I’m looking to have my mind, body, and limits pushed, and to try new experiences and activities. I love it when my mind is dominated, not just my body - I definitely m lean into the “mindfuck” aspect: allowing my mind and body to be toyed with, creative predicaments, surprises, unpredictability, and having my expectations subverted (within my limits). I’ll list those limits below - please feel free to take a look at them and let me know if you think we’d a good fit together!

If you are looking for a stubborn or bratty sub that needs to be “broken” into submission, then I am absolutely not for you. If you are looking for a sub who will devote themselves to you with minimal issues, then we should probably talk. Please reach out and introduce yourself and let me know a little about you. I’d appreciate it if you could send me a chat and include the word ‘coffee’ in your response, so I know that you’ve actually read this (the catfishing/scamming is real, am I right?). Thanks!

*Pics and video are ok once I feel comfortable with our contact.

LIKES: People pleasing Tease & Denial Orgasm Control Ruined Orgasms Forced Orgasms (including multiple non-stop) Post-Orgasm Torture Sissification/Feminization (private/concealed) Light Degradation/SPH Cum Eating Clothespins/Clamps Spanking/Flogging/Caning/Crop Predicament Situations Erotic Mindplay and Behavioral Shaping Creative or Manipulative Tasks Goal-setting Oral Sex / Facesitting Voyeurism / Cuckolding Limited Objectification

DISLIKES: Immaturity / Irresponsibility / Instability (from the Domme) Uncalled for or excessive degradation / berating Foot fetish Smoking (others) Dishonesty

SOFT LIMITS: Urine Large/Rough Anal Rough CBT Hair Removal Rimming Wax Diapers Forced Porn watching Sounding / Urethral Insertion

HARD LIMITS: Blood, Scat, Vomit Anything with minors Needles, Blades, Flame/Heat Permanent Body Damage, Scarring, Marking, Piercing, or Modification Public or Online Exhibition Blasphemy / Religious play Findom or any other financial exchange Excessive CBT Blackmail / Extortion Choking/Airplay Caging/Jail Furry/animal/pet-play Beastiality Ass to Mouth Smoking/Drugs (Self and anyone involved)

INTERESTED (Little or No experience): Enforced Physical Chastity Body Harnesses Anal Plugs Pegging Prostate play Bondage/Restraint Mouth Gags Enemas Sensory Deprivation Ice Electro-play