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Heyyy all! Hope this post finds you well. I'm Alex, a 31 yo straight male Dominant from north Italy!
I've been in dynamics in the past, so i got experience with me and i'm currently in a sort of friendship with benefit with a local girl, but is still a long distance thing. She is aware, knowing the lil stalk she is prolly reading, so that's cool with us but pointing it out right at the start, since trust and communication are key, and it could be an hard limit for someone. Also not into curvy ladies, apologies!
So as the title says, i'm looking for a potential friend, i'd like to talk often, get to know you better, hopefully share hobbies in common, maybe play or watch something together? Spend the night cuddling and talking? Yeah that's me.
Outside of playtime, i'm clingy, possessive, jealous, an attention whore, i'm very affectionate, romantic and caring.
I want you to be always able to tell me anything, be able to speak about anything, i want you to feel appreciated for the person you're, for the way you act, the things you do, not just because you're a good slave or you have a nice body.
During the playtime i'm strict, rough. But not a sadist or a misogynist.
I feel pleased when the sub is doing acts of service for me, knowing that she also like what she is doing, feeling aroused by it.
Let's take Spanks and humiliation/degradation as examples, if you're comfortable with them, like them, turns you on, that's my thing! If they're indifferent for you, i might still enjoy it time to time, but is not even comparable to someone who actually enjoys them, so i don't like do it often, because i feel it is entirely one sided thing, not for the outcome, so i don't really like it. If you would do it, only to please me, without like it or being aroused doing it, then that's NOT my thing and i don't like that kind of dynamics/interactions.
Those are my kinks for general reference:
TPE, Clit, Nipples Torture, Denial, Overstimulation, Forced cum, Humilation, Degradation, Impact play, Pain, Bladder control, Deep throat, Anal, Stretching/Gaping (both holes), Bodyfluids (mostly pussy moisture and squirting) Item insertion (house hold stuff), Corruption, Enema, Pet play, CNC, Breeding, Cockworship, Ovipositioning, Watersports, DDLG. Got a huge fetish for dirty panties.
Limits:
Scat, Toilet related play, Extreme violence, Gore, Permanent things, Blood, Social suicide.
What i expect from you:
Be always open and honest, communication and trust are key, otherwise dynamic is broken.
I'd like to discuss before hand if you're in other dynamics or relationship
I'd like to setup daily rules to follow
I'd like you to have at least 1 buttplug(not an hard limit) 1 vibrator and 1 dildo as toys.
Discuss if owning your orgasms and denial would be fitting the dynamic
I'd like you to verify with SFW pic early on, i'm open to do the same if you wish.
I'd like you to be comfortable sending voice notes early on, i'm open for the same, you can also find my voice on my profile, verified.
Once trust will be established with time (amount of time required is totally irrelevant) NSFW pics should be on the table.
Bonus: If you have a lovense toy i can control.
That's pretty much it both from vanilla and kinky sides, i'm open to have any sort of friendly chats, that it might be about the dynamic, talking about us to see if we click, about kinks or any clarification, don't be afraid to slide in my dm.
I'm honestly thinking that i'll accept only one sub, considering i have another already, i want to be high effort and high quality and give you both the attentions you deserves.
So if you're interested, make sure to impress me with a nice introduction of yourself, and why among many you're intersted in me as dom.
Thank you for taking time reading, see you on the other side or wish you to find what you're looking for along with much happiness.
Xo xo
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