Over my years, I've found that I enjoy relationships when my partner can just completely turn off their brain when with me. I enjoy making the decisions for us both and guiding them through life, while they are free to let the troubles of the world melt away. And that is the best part of a BDSM relationship, placing onesself entirely in each other's hands. Would you want to live that life?

I currently live in Seattle, WA but I move every few years. I don't mind starting online and then relocating someone, just keep in mind that I want to move towards IRL long term ownership.

Vanilla me I keep my life a bit compartmentalized so I wanted to outline myself as such too. I wear lots of black, maintain a nice beard, and have some pics on my profile. I'm very active currently, spending almost every weekday in the gym working on my powerlifting or acrobatics. Huge plus if you enjoy either of them, or just like being manhandled and tossed around. In a perfect world, you'd accompany me to the gym too. Outside of that, I also enjoy photography (mostly erotic but I do capture nature as well), adventures in general, and am a huge movie buff. If you'd enjoy being bound and gagged in my arms as we watch something together, what would you want to watch?

Kink me Ideally I'd want a partner that wants to work towards TPE, as they've fully put themselves into my care. But that takes a lot of time and communication, so I'm fine with someone that's new or just getting started that's intrigued at least. Beyond that, I'm big into bondage, training, objectification, dollification, pet play, free use, and so much more. I'm not a sadist in the sense that I enjoy causing pain, it's more than I'm extremely capable and knowledgeable on pain and enjoy the control that that gives me. So if you enjoy pain, I enjoy it as well and just as much as if you "hate it". In essence, I get off based on my partners enjoyment of what's going on. I prefer to be warm and encouraging of submissives, but I can also be cold and callouse of them. Let me know what you need so I can make you what I need. Latex is a huge weakness for me as well.

There's a lot more to me, and I believe that a dynamic is best when it's tailored to everyone involved. No one is going to be a perfect match, but if we can find that deep connection, we can build from there. I have well over a decade of experience in many things, and TPE is very normal for me, so let me know how quickly you are comfortable with moving. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.