Quite a vague title due to the complexity of what I am looking for and for someone (F) to accept certain elements of this relationship, if I happen to find someone genuine. As with many places, the volume of timewasters and disingenuous people is quite high and prevalent. This said, there will be a number of requirements that will garnish my reply which i will elaborate upon.

If you are unwilling to do any of the following, this post is not for you:

● Be able/willing to travel (if you can/prefer to host, we can discuss further)

● Meet publicly/in person

● Willing to dress as asked/bring several outfits to change into (anything else you wish to bring will be your decision)

● Willing to spend the day or overnight together

● Provide evidence you are who you say you are (photo with time/date visible - face not necessary for now and/or videocall)

I am looking for a woman who wants the company of a man with no judgement, a woman who can speak her mind and express her desires (be it initially and exclusively or whenever we are together). We can both discuss how each other will dress to suit the circumstances and if there are particular dress codes, I will be procuring items for you to wear. This does not exclude items you may wish me to wear also. This will be a discreet relationship, where if we decide to socialise, it will be in locations we both do not frequent.

You must be equally comfortable sitting on the sofa watching TV and something more performative, varying in nature, be it simply standing in front of me to admire you in your outfit to one of several kinks we may share or mutually be willing to explore.

I'm 43, white, 5'10", black hair, brown eyes, work in London, live in South West Essex, live alone, with a variety of interests.

Please reply with the word 'Spring' before telling me about you, a description where your photo does not provide sufficient detail and what you are looking for.