I’m a straight novice sub from DFW looking (for now) a short-term relationship and power exchange for the next week. Either local to #DFW or #online.

To tell you a bit about myself, I’ve done some self-denial and light self-torture in the past with porn, few challenge dares, and web-teases, but have found those lacking and have recently stepped out and sought interactions with others in the community.

I’ve only served one Mistress, who has dominated me over the last week. She is a wonderful gentle Domme and has helped me through much of my anxiety about “stepping into the light” (or darkness, depending on who you ask), and separating any “romanticism” of the idea of submission with the reality of it put into practice. This has greatly helped shape my perceptions of what it means to truly submit, and I have found so much fulfillment and joy in serving someone.

I am looking to find a Domme to serve who can also continue to train me, help refine my kinks, enjoy the benefits of my service and obedience, and (gently) push my limits. Basically, I’ve broken out of my closet-kink shell, but I need a Domme whom is wants to continue to shape me and leverage these recent gains.

I’m looking to have my mind, body, and limits pushed, and to try new experiences and activities. I love it when my mind is dominated and toyed with, not just my body; hide my mind somewhere, and my body will follow. I am a sincere, dedicated sub with a good sense of humor. I’m also very conscientious, motivated, and determined the succeed in whatever I put my mind to. My primary kink is people-pleasing: I get fulfillment out of helping make others happier. I can be teased and denied for days, left sexually frustrated and have my body abused, and I can still be a person whom you can talk to and will listen, or even vent on. I have a number of interests of my own and I like to get to know people learn more about them.

If you like a sub who takes initiative to anticipate your needs and cater to your desires without asking, I am able and happy to do that. If you’d prefer to micromanage me (all the way down to giving permission to touch myself or choosing what I may eat or what clothing a wear), then please let me know in advance of your style preference.

If you are looking for a stubborn or bratty sub to break down into submission, then I am absolutely not for you. If you are looking for a sub who will devote themselves to you with minimal issues, then I’d love to talk to you.

Some quick info:

38, married kids (though they’re all out of town for the next week). White, 5’8”, brown hair, beard, overweight with a few physical limitations. Pics and video are ok once I feel comfortable with our contact.

LIKES: Tease & Denial Orgasm Control Ruined Orgasms Forced Orgasms (multiple non-stop) Post-Orgasm Torture Sissification/Feminization (private/concealed) Light Degradation/SPH Cum Eating Clothespins/Clamps Spanking/Flogging/Caning/Crop Light Anal Predicament Situations Erotic Mindplay and Behavioral Shaping Creative or Manipulative Tasks Goal-setting Oral Sex / Facesitting Voyeurism / Cuckolding Some Objectification

DISLIKES: Immaturity / Irresponsibility / Instability (from the Domme) Uncalled for or excessive degradation / berating Smoking (others)

SOFT LIMITS: Urine Large/Rough Anal Rough CBT Hair Removal Rimming Wax Diapers Forced Porn watching Sounding / Urethral Insertion Foot fetish (it doesn’t do anything for me and I am neutral)

HARD LIMITS: Blood, Scat, Vomit Anything with minors Needles, Blades, Flame/Heat Permanent Body Damage, Scarring, Marking, Piercing, or Modification Public Exhibition Blasphemy / Religious play Findom Excessive CBT Blackmail / Extortion Choking/Airplay Caging Furry/animal/pet-play Beastiality Ass to Mouth Smoking/Drugs (Self and anyone involved)

INTERESTED (Little or No Experience): Enforced Physical Chastity Harnesses Anal Plugs Pegging Prostate play Bondage/Restraint Mouth Gags Enemas Sensory Deprivation Ice Electro-play