Hi there people of the internet! Today I'm posting trying to find someone at the very least to chat with throughout the work day. And at best, I'd like to find someone who is interested in forming trust and a dynamic, and nurturing a long term connection.

About me: I'm 33, white, chubby/fat, 225lbs, 6ft tall, somewhat proportionate.

My current life: currently I'm living with some family since moving back home post COVID after my last relationship some time ago. I work in the medical field, and when I'm not working I enjoy cozy nights in. Movies. TV. Music. Gaming. And chatting with friends.

I have lots of hobbies from polaroid photography, to indoor plants, and car meets.

I am ultimately looking for someone who wants the best of both worlds. Someone who likes being in charge, but can maintain a normal appearance of a relationship.

I am fairly heavily submissive leaning, but I have a lot of inner drive for being in control of certain situations, as well as kinks.

Some things I want to explore while topping are - rigging/rope tying. Impact play, outfits, objectification, bondage, various training routines.

I am also a softie. I want to make sure you're getting enough food and you're drinking water. I like schedules and being punctual. I like check ins, but above all of these things I just enjoy good company. The rest is icing on the cake. Plus it's hard to date and suddenly be like yeah by the way I saw this and I thought it was cool.

On the sub side I'm primarily interested in chastity devices, male orgasm denial and experiencing the headspace that goes with that. I'm also into body worship and service.

Overall I just want someone I am head over heels for. Someone funny, and witty, but also able to be serious. Someone who can get my dumb references to old movies. Lol.

Tell me about some of your favorite movies you've seen lately. Or just a food you're craving 😊

Pic for pic!