Hello, and thanks for reading my post!

ABOUT ME

Physically- I'm a 35 year old white man. I'm 5'8", relatively active, I go running about 4-5 times a week. I'm a pretty average build, not thin/not fat, kind of muscular, I won't say dad bod but like, I dunno? Someone called it “squishy muscular” and I liked that.. Slightly olive skin, dark hair, deep brown eyes, glasses-wearer. A drunk guy called me "Iron man!!" once when I was walking home, so that's gotta mean something. I don't really see it though. Fully vaccinated & boosted. Happy to share pics if we start talking!

Personality- I'm a very introverted, neurodivergent, ADHD homebody who goes through various stages of hyperfixations. I'm bookish, quiet, & slightly aloof, though I tend to open up very much once I get to know someone and feel more comfortable around them. I identify as demisexual which honestly makes a lot of sense sifting through those feelings over the years . I love reading books, playing videogames, watching bad movies (and occasionally good ones), anime and my cat. I enjoy the outdoors despite my homebody-ness, usually going to coffee shops or trying new restaurants, or taking (very amateur) photography, and just exploring my city. I try to cook, I can make maybe 3 meals incredibly well, but need a recipe sheet for most everything else.

I’m very very left-leaning. I very strongly prefer others that share similar views as me. I’m immediately suspicious of anyone who says they’re moderate or “just not into politics”. I constantly go through crises or identity, worrying if I’m actively contributing to the capitalist decay of society by having a career in finance, wondering if I’m one of the bad guys. ACAB includes the Paw Patrol dogs. I promise I won't spend too much time on my little soapbox, though

The Kinky Stuff- Kinky me is equal parts soft & rough. I love being gentle, sensual, lots of teasing, sensation play, but I'm just as happy being rough, tossing you around like a ragdoll. I also have a little bit of a sadism streak, and enjoy a little degradation, though I prefer not to get too heavy into it. At my heart I love to let the raw, hedonistic emotions take over, turn off my brain and just focus on maximizing my partners pleasure & mine. Let me call you my good girl, whisper sweet nothings in your ear, write words of affirmation all over your body, & and make you mine. Strong believer in enthusiastic consent and "actively running away from boundaries" (honestly it's awful I even have to clarify that).

I'm located in Baltimore city itself, and am looking for something local! So preferably nearby or at least within driving distance. DDF, clean STD panel, hope that you do too. So if a nerdy, anticapitalist kinkster if what you're looking for, feel free to reach out!