[Open to all femme presenting individuals]

Hi! So as the title says, I typically date non-monogamously and am a switch. If that's not your thing, no biggie! Non-monogamy to me gives me a sense of bodily autonomy that I have no intention of relinquishing (but it helps leave me room to relinquish that autonomy in other ways <3).

I've had a lot of experience both in love and in life, and with that, I know that what I'm looking for will be hard to find and I'm ok with that. I want to find my person. The one that I can look at when I'm old and still be in disbelief over how lucky I am to have found them. I might be a bit of a hopeless romantic but oh well. I want to find the person I can trust wholeheartedly, someone that will actually be there for me through sickness and in health as I will for them. Which feels further and further away from being a possibility these days (maybe it's my fault living in a college town).

I'm looking for someone that is capable, communicative, light hearted, kinky, stable(at least for the most part ;)), ever growing, and knows how to take care of themselves both physically and mentally (I take care of the people I love but you also need to be able to take care of yourself). Also, have good relationships, be it friends, family, or both. Preferably a switch too but leaning either way isn't an issue at all, just know what it is you want. Advocate for your needs and I will listen :) Between 21-28 is good but outside of that range isn't a deal breaker, just don't be old enough to have kids my age.

Kids.

I'm not against having kids, though I do not see it in my future. I have a vasectomy for that reason. I had a troubled childhood and though I've done the work to heal and be ok, I don't take the responsibility of having children lightly and as such, the likelihood of having them with me is 0.0001% at best.

Still reading? Here's a little about me;

I'm cute, well educated, fit. Can be a bit of flirt sometimes but I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I have brown skin, curly black hair, and tattoos. I exercise a lot, it's something I've done for years and it's nice to have something where you're consistently making tangible progress. I'm 6'3" and my weight fluctuates based on my training phase but to give you an idea I'm sitting at around 200lbs right now. I think it's safe to say my profession/education and my physical appearance don't always match. Now, I can't really say this without sounding so full of myself but it's true - I get hit on a lot. Like, uncomfortably so. And I'm not about that life. I said I can be a flirt, sure, but that's if we've already built some rapport. And even if we're both liking what the other's putting out, I'll ask for your number and text you the next day. I rarely kiss on the first date let alone take a random person home from the bar. I do have a bit of a thing for ownership/belonging to each other so if you do too - claim me! I also come with a dog, he's sweet and big and fluffy and will honestly probably not like you all that much. If he doesn't try to kick you out at bedtime, I will marry you lol.

If you found any of this appealing, send me a message! I think emotional and physical attraction are both important so I'm happy to verify. We can exchange pictures after building some rapport so please tell me about yourself in your first message (being a good conversationalist is so goddamn sexy).

Oop, bc it matters - I lean left (if it wasn't obvious from my post). If you agree with any of the absolute insanity that the Republican media are spewing, you can kindly go fuck yourself <3

Oop 2 - kinks and limits!! I have a wide range of kinks and love exploring new one's. They can also change based on the connection and relationship I have with you. It's easier for me to list my hard limits and basically everything else can be discussed. No promises I'll do them/be into it tho I am basically limitless for the right person (excluding those that follow!!) Hard Limits: Blood, permanent scarring/damage, degredation/humiliation, anything illegal, hard drugs, and things of that nature.