Hello. Thank you for reading my post. Let me start by telling you about myself. I’m 47, and live in North Austin. I’m a devoted dog dad and I like to read and write my own mixture of fantasy and erotica. I am married, but my wife does not know about this side of me for reasons we can discuss when/if the time is right. If that is not something you want to deal with, I understand. But if you're in a similar situation, and I know you're out there, I would love to here from you.

I’ve been on my kink journey for almost ten years now. In that time, I've had some amazing successes and some painful failures. I have used the knowledge earned from those experiences to mold myself into a caring, supportive dominant. I strive to be a teacher, a caregiver, a guide, a protector. For me, a dynamic is all about the experiences that my submissive wishes to have and the feelings she wishes to feel. I communicate with my submissive and take her guidance in creating a safe space for to learn and explore. I enjoy supporting and empowering, but I also have a sadistic streak and enjoy orgasm control and consensual humiliation/degradation.

All that time and hard work has lead to me being in a serious long distance relationship. It's amazing and I am very happy with it. But I hunger to get my hands on someone. So I'm looking for a strictly in the bedroom dynamic with play partner willing to let me tie her up, spank her, and tell her when, or even if, she gets to cum. Something with fairly regular meetings based on learning and exploration would be perfect.

The woman I'm looking for is intelligent, communicative, and has a dirty mind that she is not afraid to speak. I'm flexible on age, appearance, and experience level, but I absolutely need a potential play partner to be local, discreet, and able and willing to meet up regularly and attend local kink events.