Hi there! I'm Fen, a pleasure Dom / Daddy looking for a submissive partner to develop a long term (preferably romantic) connection with -- one involving emotional vulnerability, intense kink, and a healthy foundation of communication and friendship.

Who I am: I'm a heteroflexible/queer cis white male, 29, with an average build (5'9" 180lbs), tattoos, pierced ears and maintained facial hair, nice hands, and two cute cats. Nerdy, foodie (love to cook and bake), politically liberal, type A personality, history buff, tea lover, very career driven in STEM, neurodivergent (ADHD & anxiety), big into board & video games and being outdoors. Lately I've been really into improv comedy, the gym and decorating my apartment.

At this point in my life I'm not really interested in biological children of my own. An online connection is fine at first for me but I couldn't do it forever -- I'm currently living in the Denver area but am not tied down (lol) here.

Kink: I've come to realize I appreciate a high level of intensity in my kink. I like the intense emotional connection of being wanted and served through worship and training, or of reducing someone to a trembling, mentally foggy and pliable mess with nothing but carefully selected words. I enjoy giving objectification, overwhelming with sensation or depriving one of it altogether. Giving thoughts that slowly burn in the back of the mind, touches that invoke a gasp, play that induces a body to act beyond voluntary control. Encouraging the decent into different headspace spaces and fantasies. Playing with endurance, fullness, helplessness, identity, resistance, trust, pleasure, pain, overstimulation. A journey of utter exhaustion of the body and mind, with a gentle hand and tender kisses providing praise and guidance through it. Mutual euphoria of a sexually sadistic artist and the muse under his deep protection and care.

Consent, aftercare, and respecting limits and emotional needs are necessary for me. Also not a fan of toilet play/filth, certain types of edge play, blood or abdl. Happy to discuss more about kinks and limits in messages!

Who I'm attracted to: I gravitate toward people who are creative, enthusiastic and enjoy learning, who challenge me and inspire me to improve myself. People who share a need for mental connection -- laughter, banter and absurdity, goofy references and memes, affection, closeness, communication, emotional openness and vulnerability. People who are anti toxic masculinity, in touch with themselves, and have an awareness of & respect for the people and world around them. I find passion and drive infinitely attractive and want to help people pursue their goals and passions! A realistic understanding of the role of D/s within a relationship is important as well -- I want to give support while feeling supported as well.

Physically, my type is shorter / smoler folks who take care of themselves physically and present feminine to androgynous (regardless of gender identity), with a massive soft spot for alt, artsy or bookish vibes. I am also open to and experienced with ENM, but that is not a requirement nor preference.

If you find any of this enticing, feel free to send me a message! The longer and more specific the better -- I enjoy vulnerability and skipping small talk in favor of more meaningful topics. Also please be willing to (eventually) do voice calls and swap a SFW pic. Hope to hear from you :)