Hello to anyone reading this ! English isn’t my native langage, so bear with me as i try to explain what i’m searching for here without making too much mistakes.
For almost eight years I’ve experienced kind of a weird relationship with a girl. We met online, and at first it was some flirt that quickly evolved in a form of sentimental relationship but reverted to a simple tchat. We weren’t really compatible. Except for one thing : sex. She awoke something in me as she wanted to be dominated (it was both sex tchat and some encounters), and if it was weird for me at first (i’ve always had deep respect for women, and my education was kind of strict and… traditionnal), i’ve quickly realised that not only i was fine with it, but i deeply enjoyed it.
But like i said, it has always be kind of weird. We never went all the way in the master/slave thing, only there and there with experiencies and it has been wild on some regards…long story short, her sister liked the submissive thing too.
Now that it have ended (We still talk, but she have a boyfriend now and thus i’ve took my distances, and i had other girlfriends after that, but none that liked this kink), i’m left with a burning desire to continue exploring that kink with somebody else, but in hindsight i’m just eager and still a little inexperienced. Something that i try to fill now.
So, given that i’m French, it’s preferable for me to find a French person. I can hold my ground in english, i just don’t think i’m fluent enough for big and long conversations. But hey, we can try, if you’re patient.
I like (very) petite and fit women ; brunette, but i’m not really picky on that side. One thing in particular is that i can’t be with someone that can’t physically take care of herself. I mean that i’m into fit persons only because knowing that you take care of your body (by doing a sports or at least watch your weight) attract me. The opposite means obviously a turn-off. I don’t do fatshaming, it’s just a fact on my sexual orientations. Weirdly, if you’re a little overweight but hard at work doing something about it, it might still interest me. In general being submissive towards me is a huge turn-on either way…
« So he must me that kind of ugly bastard who wants the perfect partner but are eptiome of the opposite » you might think. Wrong, i don’t require something in somebody that i don’t have or aren’t ready to do/change about myself. So i’m 82kg (180pounds) of mainly muscle from swimming, musculation and jogging. I don’t have an overly fit body, i’ve more like a woodcutter type of body, and i always workout to improve myself ; i’m also into combat sports and medieval fencing. Don’t worry, i’m not bad-looking. At worst, i’m average. I guess it depends on your own standards.
My personnality is mainly introvert. I can be very social for short periods of time, and don’t have any problems talking with people i can trust. I see myself as a caring and loving person, very loyal and always curious to learn, very protective if need be but not overly. I hope that little description is enough for you to approximatly understand who i am (best to come see the rest for yourself, don’t you think ?)
To be fair, it could also be a long-term relationship, if the chemistry is very good and if it become a possibility over time. But at first it will be an exploration of each other that can lead to more things. Yeah, because i don’t immediatly want sexting. I first want somebody to talk to on the basis of common interests (roleplay, videogames, sports, littérature, History,…), then, we could agree to meet and go forward after that.
I don’t really know what kinks to highlight here… I’m not into hardcore stuff(yet). I like sub/dom play (mainly master/slave, open to other things), dirty talking, choking, spanking, sexy lingerie, CNC,…i’m open for more suggestions in a way, i don’t think the list stops here…like i said, i’m discovering. Maybe you will be the one to push me above and beyond in this matter !
For the limits, i just know that i’m really not into scat/vomit, everything toward femdom (i’m 100% dom, so, it’s logical i guess), latex and excessive use of bondage devices (so, no hard BDSM it seems, it’s just not my thing). There is also things i’m not fondle of, but there aren’t hard limits ; we’ll discuss about all of that.
So, my DMs are open for girls who are interested in what i have to offer. Keep in mind that i’m not proposing something final. My thirst for this and my kinks might evolve in the future, and i can be very sexually active.
I hope that proposal catch someone eye, and preferably not catfishing people and bots. I’m not stupid enough to fall for that, so don’t bother too much or you’ll have heavy work on your hands.
Thank you for reading all of this.
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