Posting because it's hard to find masochists in Asia.

I've been retired for a few years, I travel all around the world, but SE Asia is one of my regular homebases - I'm in Siargao now, I spend my time mainly in PI and Thailand (Phuket usually), but did business all over China, Korea, and Japan for 7 years, and love traveling anywhere to meet new people.

I don't really care what country you're in, because if we hit it off I can just get a place there, or you can give up your job (if you don't have a career you care about that much) and travel with me.

I want somebody age 18-27 who's gorgeous and smart (don't we all) AND submissive and masochistic, as in "can actually get off on and enjoys pain." Asia's sardine-packed with gorgeous submissive girls, but not masochistic girls, and I'm sadist enough I need that, and this is why I'm posting here.

Who am I? Bon vivant. Raconteur. Breakdancer! Ok, honestly I kinda suck at breakdancing specifically...but you can't pull me away from a good DJ's dancefloor or dancing in general! I love music (went to more than 25 concerts last year), I go to Burning Man regularly, I race cars, I raise and train puppies (clocking in at 7 pups by this point, the world needs more happy little floofs and I'm doing my part!). I've been getting into surfing lately, hence Siargao and Phuket, but I still kind of suck at it. 😂

I'm worth respecting and submission to - I've published in 2 science disciplines, was a regionally competitive athlete (and am still incredibly fit), led data science and modeling teams at a big fincorp, have done 5 startups, and live an extraordinary life.

I love mentoring, both professionally and personally.

On BDSM, I have many years of experience with: bondage / ropes, dungeon scenes, spanking and impact, TPE / free use, CNC, and violet wands and other toys. I am a dominant sadist, and want a submissive masochist.

Although I'm very physical, I know and celebrate the fact that BDSM is primarily mental, and love subtly and artfully intertwining and accentuating the physical with the mental - real S/M is at least 80% mental, and we both know it. 😁

I'm looking for a serious, deep LTR, ideally with potential for kids down the road.

If you want a partner who can help you succeed at whatever you want to succeed at, if you want to live an extraordinary and high-variety life, and want a Sir who will destroy you in the bedroom and make you submit and hurt for him, but lift you up everywhere else, I'm the one for you.

Pics get as many pics in return.