I am 51 in the uk in a loveless marriage have always thought about bdsm both the total control bit and the more pain, however I am looking for someone online who wants to learn together while remaining safe. No need for pictures would prefer to just text and work out what controls we want.
I am looking for someone who is committed to trying and will not just disappear, I want after care to be as much a part of it and honestly it’s more the control part that interests me, to know you are there doing what I told you when I told you. We could time activities so for example, whatever you are doing at 12:30 you need to go to the bathroom and edge, then again at 3:30 each time texting me before and after. Then later that day we can discuss and increase the control. I want to control as much of your life as I can. Dm me and offer your thought if you think it could work.
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