This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
I am a 26 year old female university student majoring in management with a minor in film studies and writing. Full disclosure, I have other pets - I am purely asexual, I just like the control.
I am looking for people to chat with in a platonic way, someone who seeks to be controlled, I can be cruel, but I don't do insults, etc. I need you to be aware that this will be short-term chatting and that I will only engage with you for so long.
Requirements
Has a nice and calm voice
Age - 23 ~ 30. (28~29 is preferred)
Is a decent communicator.
A nice English accent is appreciated.
Americas are a little too hard due to timings.
I am weak to east asian and sadly caucasian men these days.
Do not like facial hair. Pretty hands are a must. Haha.
About Me
I am a CIS Female, I am a university student, I major in management. but minor in film studies and writing, with my O-levels in sciences. Background
It started with sexual control, then moved to micromanagement, and now passive conditioning. I am still honing my craft. I do have an idea of where I want to be, but still stumbling and finding my way to it.
Personality
I can be a handful. I don't waste my emotions on people easily but I do respect people. most people however can't even respect basic communication. I do not like sweet and empty words. And to be perfectly honest I am not all that emotionally available.
But it is very evident when I like to hang out with someone. But just cause I am spending a lot of time with you doesn’t mean much. If people matter I go out of my way not to exhaust them. I have an obsessive need for politeness. I am a firm believer of treating others how you wish to be treated. Which as a dom is rather hard, I do make my effort though. People are people.
I am going to sound like a narcissist, but since this is a personal, I might as well right. I think I’m a very interesting person with layers and layers to my personality. Which can be a bonus or a curse depending on how you see it. I have a pensive need to follow agreements which I can get very obsessive about. I have many hobbies, and I do like to think I am a decent person to have a chat about almost anything. I can be caring. But that’s gotta be earned. I’m easy to befriend. Very hard to actually catch.
A key core personality trait of mine is that I am obsessive. Rarely towards people, and never in a creepy way, but more, if my favorite manga hasn’t been translated in months, I’ll hunt down the raws, and use all resources known to myself to translate a new chapter, or order a dvd of an old tv movie all the way from japan because my favorite actor had a 2 minute part in it and I am trying to archive all his work. Productive obsession.
My persona can switch between a child and a wise 100 years old person. I am a very confusing and contradictory person.
Owner Pet Dynamic.
For me my pets are pets but human. I do not think of them as lesser individuals. I am a very multifaceted individual and I suppose my style reflects that. Sometimes I am caring, sometimes I am cold, sometimes I need constant attention, other times I want to be left alone. I do think I just described a normal human.
I should be like air. essential but not something you need to notice.
In the short term, I am still trying to explore my style of d/s dynamic and that does take time and effort. I like to micromanage, but passive conditioning is also fun. I am working on my shared experiences at the moment.
For the most part I enjoy control, be it micromanaging someone, or having a mental ownership over them. To me my pets are the companions who give me comfort. At times they feed my need for control.
People who love a complicated problem, would either love me or hate me. I suppose it depend on how much they like to grind eh~
Hard Limits
Seriously no dick pics.
Instructions on how to reach out
Do not send me nude pictures. To be honest not the best with pictures in general. Want to send a picture. send one of your hands. or with animals.
Tell me a bit about yourself and what you like about being a sub, and what intrigues you. I enjoy talking to people so feel free to reach out, but remember, it will be without any commitments to anything.
Please keep it in mind that I do not and am not a sexual dom.
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 8 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/BDSMpersona...