TLDR
I am a Sadist who is looking for a masochist/slave to train. I am looking for something consistent with the goal of mutually and safely getting what we desire at the end of the day.
Long Version
For those interested in this section just know it will be long, but I will flesh out more detailed information about what I am looking for.
To be exact, when it comes to roles, I would argue that I am the following in this order: Sadist, Master, Owner, Dom. I wouldn't consider myself a Daddy of any sort so for those that were looking for someone like that, I hope you find what you are looking for in your search. Specifically, when it comes to my roles, physically I take on a Sadistic/Dom roles while mentally I engage more in the Master/Owner roles. This isn't a strict line, but general overview of things so that you are aware.
Personally for what I am looking for is for someone that I can take the time to learn, understand, and train into a slave. In an ideal world, I would be in a dynamic that has been flushed out and well documented for things both inside and outside of the bedroom so that there will be a constant dynamic in the background of my partner and I's lives, but that is in the future some day.
Realistically, I am looking for someone that is interested in exploring training as a slave/sub, mainly in the sphere of the bedroom though I am open to discussion on idea of it outside of the bedroom. For those interested it's crucial that the following can be agreed upon before engaging further: Safety, Privacy, Comfort, and Honesty. I am DDF and would ask the same of you as well. If any of these would be a deal breaker, I hope sincerely that your search will go well in the future. I don't need to immediately jump into anything, but I don't have the intention to just be chat buddies either.
Also, I do want to get to know you as a person and individual as it helps with building trust and better connection for play. Clear boundaries will exist but understanding each other I feel is crucial in this space.
Since you have made it this far thank you for taking the time. I want to mention a few things about myself to wrap up this decently long post. I am generally speaking an active gym goer, I enjoy nerdy things like anime and gaming. While I generally don't smoke 420, I am 420 friendly. I like to get out to go to different lounges, arcades, and active games. I am down-to-earth, patient, and focused on being content in life. Hopefully, we share similarities that we can connect on and if not it's a learning experience nonetheless. Also, to describe myself: Black, brown eyes, 5'11, Athletic build.
In general, I am located in the North DFW area. I don't mind traveling within the DFW area or hosting depending on what makes more sense and our respective comfortability.
Finally, for those that are interested, send me a little bit about your kinks/interests/experience and something personal about yourself so I know that you read this part. Important to mention, I don't mind if you are experienced or not, if you have a partner (as long as they are ok with it and I can confirm that with them), and if this isn't one of your main priorities as we all have lives to live, but I am not interested in scammers. Either way I look forward to your message.
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