Edit: I don't know how else to write this, I'm looking for females. I'm not into males. Please save us both time and stop messaging me if you are a male.

Hello,

I’m Alexandra. As you can tell by the title I’m a 32 year old dominant mistress looking for her personal slave to abuse.

Who am I? (Les Mis anyone?)

In my personal life, I am a psychologist, avid theatre and live concerts fan, quite the bookworm and fascinated by advancements in technology and science Occasionally I play games a bit when there is time but not a crazy gamer. I like to read more about them than playing. If you get me talking about the right topics, I will total nerd out and bore you to death. This might be the worst punishment I can give.

What I’m into

• Pain: I’m sadistic, very sadistic. You have been warned. If you’re not a masochist I’m probably not going to be right for you.

• Anal: I love anal. Well making you do anal, I would never its nasty. Honestly I’m not sure why I like it so much. Maybe its because so many subs don’t. Bottomline, expect to be doing a lot of anal.

• Bondage: You being helpless is amazing. I also have some pretty decent knowledge of self bondage techniques to make this happen online.

• CNC: If you don’t like / want something that just makes me want to do it more.

• Spanking: Do I really need to explain this, see the first point.

• Nipple Torture: See first point.

What I’m not into

• Age play

• Scat

• Excessive Brattiness (Yes I know this isn't a word and I mean very excessive, I can tolerate normal healthy brattiness)

• Blood

What to expect

I am not a loving mistress, or better I am not loving initially. I grow affection for my sub through my sadistic sessions. I can seem brutal and unforgiving but I am not insane. Safe words will be in place and safety will be the first thing we will agree upon. After that point I become the Domme you read above so for some it's probably a bad idea to message me. Though please note that some of the likes can be discussed and I might make exceptions for the perfect sub. If that makes you want to message me even more then you're probably the type of girl for me.

If you made it this far and feel that you could be the one I'm looking for, please drop me a message or chat I would love to share more in chat and see if we are compatible. Please include a pic (with no face or identification of course) and I will of course reciprocate. Please note, due to the high amount of messages I receive, I won't reply to the ones that do not contain the above.

P.s. This is F4F, I don't want, need or will consider males. It seems I have to repeat this as some people don't get the memo.