I'd value your time, so I'll start with the deal-breakers right away:) Let's see if we both match!

(If it matters, height wise I'm 5'11/180cm, have blue eyes, deep voice and prefer someone shorter/petite/slim)

I would label myself a soft dom/switch. I wouldn't say I bond through pain or seek something rough but I still like the leading/nurturing aspects and would want like that emotional/intellectual connection where we really surrender to each other.

Personality wise I'm more the analytical, grounded and logical person on the outside but have a warmer/sensitive side I'd like to be felt with someone special. I'm not impulsive or a risk taker whatsoever. I think things through but I'm not super cautious and organised either; I rather make plans where appropriate. I like focusing on single tasks, being meticulous, immersing myself in what I'm doing and doing that well, not really a multi-tasker. My memory is a little unusual due to SDAM (Severely Deficient Autobiographical Memory) in that I don't re-experience my personal past all that much, but can easily recall semantic information like facts, concepts, numbers etc. This means I can be very out of sight, out of mind about things and people. However I'm also incredibly present, don't tend to hold grudges and can always see you as you are now. I think people who always felt misunderstood or want someone unreactive or safe would appreciate this.

So who/what I'm I looking for? Someone who also wants a deeper connection with acceptance and vulnerability with something honest that lasts. Ideally we'd pull towards and lean on each other for everything rather than with draw and be each others core person, able to rely on ourselves rather than involve others in our relationship matters.

Someone more clingy would help as I like to feel wanted and feel it helps maintain the connection in my case. I love the idea of being each others complements/second halves so someone who shares my core values but is also vibrant, passionate, emotionally intense and conventionally feminine would be perfect. It could be that you're someone that tends to experience the world deeply or have an anxious disposition... Maybe are dreamy/idealistic, sensitive/anxious/delicate or even have a condition that colours your life like BPD. I feel with any of that there would be a magnetic attraction there as it would feel like we balance each other out in a way, if that makes sense.

Well this is getting into the wall of text territory so for hobbies/interests I'll just write a quick list to help anyone shy with starting conversations:

• Psychology/Philosophy/Spirituality
• Tech/Gaming/Documentaries/Reading
• Anime/Cosplay/J-Fashion (if you're a dollette or look like an e-girl i'd melt on sight lol)
• Voice acting/Sound Engineering/Music prod
• Cooking/Health/Self-Improvement & DIY

Thank you so much for your time and attention reading this far, it means a lot! If you found this compelling shoot me a message, no stupid questions! You could write what you liked or caught your eye in this post or write some basic info about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you. 💕