Hey there ladies,

I've been off the dating and everything else market for several years while I focused on raising my (currently 2 year old) daughter and being the best father I could be. Due to circumstances, it just wasn't in the cards and I didn't have the time or energy for it.

However life is ever changing, and I find myself craving connections again. Emotional, physical, kinky. All of them.

I'm a 41 year old (title is wrong, too long at work today) white male looking for someone in the Memphis area or region. I will entertain a little further out (think Jackson, West Memphis, Little Rock or Nashville) but I really would prefer a local connection. It just works better for me, I think. I've tried to entertain long distance and it doesn't seem to go well; I'm not able to escape for long periods and that's unfair to everyone's needs.

I would like to find someone who's interested in more than just a kinky dynamic. I'm... Open... To the idea, if the person and the dynamic feels right, but it's not what I'm chasing.

I'm not about multiple partners, I'm not about poly or being/having a side piece. I'm good with just one person to focus on outside of my daughter. I'd like to grow that. I'd like a singular priority. For dating and playing, at least.

I need someone who understands the demands of a single father. Who is fine with knowing that my little girl is my priority, but if we mesh well you're next up. I hope that doesn't read like an asshole statement, but... My girl comes first. Needs to be said.

I am experienced in aftercare, CG, Brat Taming, impact play, rough and degrading play, a little rope and restraint, etc. I have very small experience as a DD but it's been a long time and I think with my daughter, that might feel creepy to me, especially if you're into very young age play.

As mentioned, I have been absent from this for some years and I'd need someone who is fine letting me ease back in. If you're a Brat/Princess type... Well, I suppose you've already got a head start because you'll get to tease me plenty as I fumble my way back into rediscovering who I am in this. If you're any other kind of sub who sees this and thinks... "hmm, maybe."... Well, I've never done M/S, TPE...though if you're curious about CNC, so am I.

RACK, SSC, PRICK aware and elevated as important as communication and honesty to me.

I'm a nerd. I enjoy reading. Occasional gamer. Wouldn't mind a working, hiking, walking companion at Shelby Farms. I'm a comic, goofy dumbass. Bourbon fan, but... Responsibilities mean, you know... I don't get drunk, just to be clear...but if you can talk your way through the differences between say, BP and double oaked we'll get along. I'm not as fit as I was before fatherhood hit me like a ton of bricks, but I'm working on it. I guess if you like a slight Dad Bod, you win here. Bearded. One tattoo. About 5'7 so if you're looking for a tall viking type, while I have no problem being with a tall woman, I'm afraid I'm going to let you down. No problem with sending a pic in DM if we vibe well. Yes, it will be a clean pic.

Would prefer someone who has their stuff at least semi-together. Interested in growing together. Patient. Kind. Someone I wouldn't mind having my daughter around after an appropriate amount of time and growth, if we get very serious in the relationship. Knows when to turn it on and off for the same, know what I mean?

Have a distinct thing for redheads, but y'all always get me in trouble lol. No height preference, as mentioned. I'm on the shorter (average height?) side but I'm not insecure being with a taller woman.

Not sure if I've said too much or not enough, but this is kind of a hail Mary / expecting nothing pass to the universe anyway. We'll see what happens.

Stay safe out there, Memphis. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.