Hi. I’m Top_Picture_3423 and I like weird post titles. Oh, you do too? That’s why you clicked it? Wanted to see what’s inside? I should start making a point soon? Got it, but first I want to describe a girl to you.

She is sitting in a man's lap, having her hair brushed, and she is very happy. She is being picked up at the airport-- dropping her bags she runs and leaps into the arm's of a man, who twirls her around. She is slowly stripping out of her clothes, and the hunger in her man's eyes makes her blush. She can't stop thinking about him. She is addicted to him, craves affection, cherishes his attention. I want that girl. I want to find an eager, submissive girl, and I want to awaken her need, her desperation, her addiction. I want her to fall into my arms, and drown in my need for her. Still with me? ;) Good girl.

Most girls can control themselves just fine without the need of a man to step in and show them the consequences of their actions. To most girls, the idea of someone choosing what outfit they wear or forcing them over the knee to administer a no-nonsense, hard punishment spanking on their completely bare bottom seems like a curious fiction, or a silly game, or a little joke, or perhaps an unnecessary and regressive stereotype. And for most girls, that's the end of the matter.

But you are not most girls.

You're stuck in a milieu that places constant, incessant demands on how you should act, how you should look, how you should think. You're surrounded by people who won't accept who you really are. And you're entrapped in your own conscience that's constantly trying to constrict and contort you into the shape that your upbringing or your religion or your family or your culture or community tells you that you must be. I will break your chains. I will dig deep enough into your mind to find the real "you", the primal, aboriginal animal essence that you've bricked over with layer after layer of inhibition.

Oh, and I will use you for my pleasure because I'm a selfish bastard. But perhaps, that is what you seek?

Public me: For the outside world I'm successful, reserved, well liked and have my life together. Live on the East Coast. I'm 35 years old, married (she know, we can talk about it), 6'3'', fit but not jacked, attended top undergraduate and graduate schools, well traveled, speak 4 languages, and have a range of eclectic interests. I've had past vanilla girlfriends and a large circle of friends who just know me as exactly I've described above.

Private me: In the bedroom, I enjoy control and I take over. I'm sadistic, rough, somewhat manipulative, demanding and unpredictable. Beyond the physical, I crave having someone to mold and make better. I want someone to use and control yes, but I also want someone whom I can help improve; to help her achieve her goals, set timelines, establish objectives and administer punishments if not met.
There's the public you: Bubbly, cheerful, well educated, intelligent, on the path towards a great career or degree, you have good friends, a loving family, a leader, a feminist and for all intents and purposes a well put together strong woman.
The private you: No one would guess what goes on inside your mind. You find yourself in a state of turmoil or indecision. There's an emptiness. You feel a deep need to let go. There's dark thoughts, sometimes you can't understand them. But you recognize your urges, your need. You want a firm hand to grab the metaphorical leash around your neck and lead you. you want to give up control, you want to be told what to wear, you want to used... above all else you want to please.
Why am I doing this? Two reasons: a) connection and b) stress relief. I lead a busy high stress life and I find having a place to express my sadistic side is a wonderful source of stress relief. If the idea of being a human stressball is appealing to you, you move to the front of the line.

Only Reach Out To Me If: Let's get these out of the way upfront

• You are height weight proportional. I am not attracted to overweight women, sorry.
• You are comfortable with the fact that I am married and recognize that despite the intimate nature of what I am proposing I am not looking to change my relationship status, ever.
• I have a life outside of this dynamic and will NOT be available 24/7. I am most attracted to women who have a life / meaningful interests of their own too.
• After trust and compatibility are established, we will move to a different platform and my preferred method of communication is over live video calls. Only reach out if you are comfortable with this.
• The type of high value woman who values discretion / privacy is the type of woman I want. Cliche, but iykyk ;)

How do we proceed: Drop me a note with your age, location/timezone, a short description of yourself and the name of the last destination you took a vacation too and we can go from there.