I am looking for a long term, serious, D/s, domestic discipline relationship that will lead to marriage. I want to create a deep, meaningful, intense connection with someone that is the foundation for everything in our lives. To be infinitely curious about each other, to want to know each other on the deepest possible level and to do everything in service of that relationship. I am searching for someone who understands the responsibility of being a Dom and leader, who will methodically conquer my heart and soul before they conquer my body. I want to be studies, analyzed, assessed, seen, and understood. I will do my best to do the same.

I do work currently as a teacher, but my desire is to be able to stay home, take care of the house, take care of the shopping, all the things that will allow my husband to take care of us financially with as little stress as possible. I want to be led, disciplined, protected, guided and cherished. I believe in rules, expectations, and spankings. I think that not only does it keep me accountable, but things like maintenance solidify that bond and reinforce the roles that we both have.

I do not have children, nor do I want them. I would prefer it if you didn’t either. It’s just not something I’m open to at this point in my life. That time has passed. I know it sounds contradictory, but despite the fact that I want this lifestyle with all my heart and believe that my soul has always longed for my trusted leader, I also consider myself a feminist. This is the choice I have made for myself, but I don’t believe in making choices for others. I am not religious, but I am spiritual. Believer in therapy and the maintenance of mental and emotional health.

I am open to relocating, and would prefer if you are looking to get married within the next two years. I love reading, documentaries, the beach or anywhere I can get in the water, learning for the sake of it, journaling, mixed media art, and most creatively inclined things. I’ve been skydiving, ziplining and snorkeling. I would love to go bungee jumping.

I also look forward to a deep physical connection too. I want to explore what connects us, what fulfills us, what brings us pleasure. I want to satisfy you, push my own limits, and feel the power of that space spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. I am a short, curvy girl, but I love my body. This seems to be a beginning question, so I'm white, 5'2, defined waist, thick thighs, ass, a small belly. I have let my greys come in naturally, so maybe call it brown hair with grey highlights? Brown eyes, button nose. It's on the farther end of the spectrum but I can shop at pretty much any regular store. Again, I love my body and have no issue with it, but I guess I understand wanting to know that physical attraction is somewhat likely. I suppose in the same way I'm not opposed to 'dad bod' but my attraction to others falls within certain parameters. I am demisexual, so while I can objectively say someone is attractive I won't have the desire to be sexual with them until the emotional attachment is there. I might be sapiosexual, but I feel less strongly about it.

I hope that this reaches the right person and we can create the kinky, loving, supportive, unique home of our dreams.