Hello! I am a sub looking for a dom preferably in utah, colorado, idaho, arizona, nevada, wyoming; or a similarly close state. A bit about me: I am short, petite, black, exercise frequently. I’m looking for a LTR that will hopefully lead to a marriage and family, so ideally I would like to find someone who is also looking for that. I am not looking to jump into the dynamic/sex right away, I would like to build up to that after getting to know each other and developing an emotional connection and trust. I think sex and intimacy is important, but in my experience relationships where we rush into the dynamic tend to fall apart pretty fast.

In regards to kink; some things I am looking for: tpe or 24/7 dynamic (eventually), D/s, 1950s - there are more but these are the more prominent ones for me

I really enjoy being given tasks and being able to serve my partner, which comes in different ways for different people, so that os something we would be able to discuss. I don’t have too many limits and will try pretty much anything once unless it is illegal (no minors, not super into age play either, not really into permanent mutilation or bathroom play either).

In terms of what I’m looking for: I don’t have much preference in terms of age, but between 24-35 is typically the range I go for. I tend to lean more left politically so someone who has similar beliefs would be nice as well; although I do have more ‘traditional’ beliefs in terms of marriage. I am not super picky looks wise, but I do like working out and being outside/hiking so someone who enjoys going out and doing those things with me is a plus! I do also enjoy staying in and getting takeout though so a good balance is nice. I’m a pretty open book so even if you do not fit everything I listed but want to chat, don’t hesitate to reach out! I am also not against a LDR, but much prefer if you are in one of the listed states.

Hope to hear from someone soon!