Greetings!

Today, I’ve brought quite the unusual proposition. And because it’s rather unusual, you’ll have to bear with me while I explain what this is all about.

But before we get into that, let me quickly explain some background. You see, I’m not a dom. Nor would I even call myself a switch. I’m very much more on the sub side of things, but the search has been rather frustrating recently, and the grass over here looks pretty damn green all of a sudden! But, because I ultimately am not a dom, I’m not really looking for something very committed and/or long term, but rather some short to medium term exploration of sorts. Which brings us to the first reason why I’m looking mostly for someone more on the inexperienced side of things – I’m not a dom, and thus, I don’t have a lot of the kinks that typically go into that. In other words, my interests mostly end where those of more experienced subs start, so I imagine I’d mostly bore them. Hence, my target audience! Additionally, what I have in mind also just works a lot better with said audience, as you’ll come to understand soon.

So, then, what do I have in mind? Well, in a grand overview kind of way, I’m trying to offer a sort of… structured submission trial, if you will. Where a more typical dynamic would involve a dom setting the path for the sub, my vision is a bit more of a sandbox. Rather than putting you on rails, the idea is rather to put you in a possibility space of my making, that nevertheless lets you retain a lot of agency. The general idea behind it is to combine the excitement of submitting with the safety of still having choices, which is one of the reasons why I believe a more inexperience “trial runner” makes more sense, as I doubt this would be an awfully helpful exercise for someone experienced.

“What the hell does any of that even mean, you damn weirdo?”, I hear you think. Well, fair question! As you will probably soon come to agree, I think giving out too many details degrades the experience and, well, is rather difficult, as the exact details would be tailor-made for you. So, let me instead give you some general ideas that may come up.

To have something a bit more concrete, let’s build an abstract example. A game, if you will. In this game, you’d get a list of multiple tasks, maybe a dozen or so, maybe more, mabye fewer, who knows. Additionally, you would get some kind of winning condition, perhaps gathering a certain amount of points, where each task is worth a certain amount. Obviously, to win the “game” or master the “challenge” (or whatever you want to call this), you’d need to accomplish enough tasks that add up to enough points to win. Simple!

Of course, the exact details of these setups would vary wildly and depend on you, but the important concept I want to get across is that I want to build these sandboxes and watch you explore them. Of course, I’d use my world-shaping powers to increase the difficulty over time or steer you in directions I like by, in the case of this example, offering more points for things I like, say. However, the main design goal remains the same – combining the thrill of submission with enough agency to hopefully always feel safe, without the need for safe words and such. Obviously these can always be used in addition to other methods, but the idea would be to build sandboxes that are always achievable, while remaining spooky enough to trigger all those submissive desires.

Hopefully that gave a decent idea of the kind of thing I’m trying to build here, without having to specifically spell out details, as that’s difficult and contains spoilers :P

Now, if that sounds interesting, feel free to write me a message, and we can figure out details from there. Oh and, I’m using 3rd party Reddit stuff, which don’t play well with chat, so I’d strongly suggest writing an actual message, otherwise I may well miss it.

Finally, regarding who I’m looking for, well, I don’t really have a big list on that front. If these general ideas sound exciting to you, that’s a good start, really :) I’m rather flexible on a lot of things, so if you think this is an offer for you, then… just reach out and take it, yea?