Good evening,

Well, it has been a good few weeks at least since I last posted, and to be perfectly honest I feel like I could be looking for a needle in a haystack at this point... but, here goes! This post may be a tad long, but I hope it's worth the read......

First of all, to save time (I hope) let's begin with what I am NOT looking for... I repeat, NOT looking for!

I have zero interest in the following:

- an online dynamic

- DDLG/age play

- younger men

- one off encounters/short term dynamics

- married/partnered up men

- finding a sub/to switch

- joining a couple

- walking red flags

- anyone from outside of the UK - I am not looking to relocate

- dick pics (instant block)

Forgive me if I come across as a Karen here, but I shall simply ignore messages from anyone seeking the above.

Okay, now that bits out the way.... a quick summary of me... I should probably clarify two things... 1) I am not a Karen, I promise! And 2) despite my username I do in fact have all of my toes, it's a default name that I can't change. Anyway, I am 25, single, and live alone in the Oxfordshire countryside, I work part time and love spending my free time with friends, family, cooking, baking, listening to music and travelling!

Physically I am white, 5'3, have long auburn hair, hazel eyes, wear glasses, curvy build, and small boobs...

Heads up - I am autistic. High functioning (I appreciate it may be labelled as something else now, but that's what it was when I was diagnosed). This does not tend to hold me back in my life, as I said I live alone, work and drive. I do get fairly anxious and very shy around new people and going to new/unfamiliar places, but I do manage. I am pretty good at masking. I do like my routine and structure, maybe that's one of the reasons I am drawn to kink. My autism does mean that it takes me a long time to warm to and trust new people, so I would need a Dom who is understanding of this and willing to take their time with me. However, with all the respect in the world, I would not be willing to to enter a dynamic with a fellow autistic, there's a reason for this, which I am not comfortable sharing here, please respect this :)

Phew, now that's out the way... onto the kink stuff! I have pretty much no experience when it comes to BDSM and kink, an older guy I was seeking did use restraints on me occasionally along with using a riding crop and spanking me, but that's about it, and it was still very vanilla. For as long as I can remember I have been fascinated by BDSM... the thought of being restrained, hurt, controlled during sex. I am at a point in my life now where I want to explore my submissive side within a D/s dynamic with an experienced Dom. I have so many kinks that I'd love to explore including: choking/breath play, orgasm control/denial, impact play, humiliation, CNC, fear/edge play, anal, restraints and much, much more!

I am looking for an experienced Dom (preferably with a sadistic streak) to train and guide me on my submissive journey and (hopefully) enter a long term IRL D/s dynamic with. A dynamic where I can safely explore my kinks, a dynamic where the Dom has control and a dynamic that's not just restricted to the bedroom. I am looking for a Dom who is able to take his time to train me, who is patient, understanding and who is a gentleman with a dark side, caring, but strict when necessary. Ideally I prefer guys who are tall and have a full head of hair, and who are strong both physically and mentally. I like older guys (30-55). Safewords and aftercare are an obvious must!

A few final points - due to my autism I would not feel comfortable hosting at my home, it's my safe space and I don't even allow friends or family over. Phone calls and face pics will NOT be instant, as I said, it takes me time to warm to and trust people. Please, NO married men.

I shall wrap it up here - I actually have a pinned post on my profile that goes into a lot more detailed about what I am looking for and who I am, so feel free to give that a read. If I haven't put you off or to sleep then please feel free to message me!

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