Over the past year, I’ve become increasingly acquainted with FTM creator content here on Reddit, and I find it fantastic. I’ve become obsessed with big, juicy T-dicks, the interplay of “masculine” and “feminine” presentation, and boi-breeding kink. I find trans men incredibly attractive and fantasize about wrapping my lips around swollen, pulsating boi dick for hours. I want it.

I’m 38, tall, cis-male presenting but queer at heart, living near Annapolis. I’m sober, DDF, and clean (like, really: I wash my hands after I pee, even—unlike most men 🤢). I’m practicing ENM with one long-term partner; no kids, not married, not cohabitating, and not planning to. I get STI tested regularly and will expect to exchange recent results with any potential partner.

I am attracted to masculine presentation; however, I have to admit that I don’t find top surgery or facial hair appealing. However, body hair, I love. I would like to explore kink, and my curiosities include CNC, free-use, light bondage, light impact play, and breeding play (not ACTUAL breeding; fur babies only for me, thanks). Not specifically into age-play or being “daddy,” but it’s up for discussion if that’s what you like. Also not interested in misgendering for my own gratification—I’m an ally; trans men are men; I respect chosen pronouns. If misgendering is your kink, we’ll need to have a conversation about the boundaries around that.

On that note, I wish to say that this isn’t about “fetishizing queer bodies.” I find trans men genuinely attractive. I have nothing but respect for the LGBTQIA community—I consider myself a part of it; although, I don’t feel the need to claim that identity or impose myself into spaces other people create for their own safety. I know who I am, and that’s enough for me. Is feeling attracted to any particular attribute in a person effectively “fetishizing” them? Is liking light- or dark hair or tall or short or skinny or thicc builds “fetishizing,” or is it simply preference? I don’t know. Yes, obviously a bisexual woman was arguing with me about this. 🙄

Anyway… I’m looking for fun and casual play, including non-sexual activities, if you like. We can hang out. I share a house with people and cannot host; however, I am willing to travel up to an hour from Annapolis, which includes D.C., Baltimore, Frederick, northern VA, and across the Bay Bridge. I put an emphasis on respect, safety, and communication in my interactions. I don’t balk at using protection; I understand the words “no” and “stop”; I have no interest in anyone doing anything they don’t enjoy. Only good things.

If you’re interested, start a chat. SFW pics will be returned in kind. Be safe out there!