Hi I'm from buffalo new york and would love to find a local sub, but online is fine as well. I'll say right off that though yes looks and physical attraction are important enthusiasm and obedience hold more weight. Speaking of weight a little about what i look like...(see what i did there?😎) I'm 5'7 brown hair blue eyes stocky but fit (i go to the gym 2-3 times a week). What i am looking for is a sub who enjoys being obedient...yes a sub is supposed to be obedient, that's kinda what they do, but you'd be surprised how many people reach out and while I'm still getting to know them they just stop responding....like they expect me to flip a switch and be dominant from the very start without telling me anything about what they like and what pushes their buttons. I need to get to know you find out your likes your looks what makes you tick in and out of sub space....yes i don't act like a Dom from the first moment we talk but once the limits and boundaries are set then it's game on. What i expect from you....hmmm you are human and over 18. Really i mean that's it. I don't do bestiality or diapers but beyond that let's talk and see where it goes.more about me: i jump on and off topics a lot. I have a college degrees. I'm am artist musician chef. I only get paid for one of those things though. My humor is very corny, it passes through you without changing much but you enjoy it while it's in there.😉 I'm huge into all kinds of music and love horror and more avant guard or cult classic movies. If you think we night vibe send me a dm. Let me know your favorite horror movie and why that way i know you read this whole thing.