Hello fellow freaks,

Looking for chats, meets, etc depending on the vibe. Ideally, there'd be a level of connection that's worth exploring properly if you're local, but also open to pen pals, sexting, rp, etc.

Kinks include:

*CNC* - various levels of non-consent are acceptable depending on your tolerance and experience. I'm happy to break in newbies, respect safewords, and generally emphasize safety

Degradation -What's more fun than forcing a cute little toy to admit what a slut she is or making her humiliate herself for my amusement.

Well-established limits - Knowing how to say no makes this easier on all of us, knowing how to say no without stopping the fun parts is a very sexy skill. (Light system > safewords IMO, but one or the other is required)

Tasks/Commands - Obedience is sexy. Happy to enforce/earn/command that obedience depending on how things play out.

Forced/Denied orgasms. - I enjoy making you wait and beg until you're about to break from desire, and then force you to cum until the pleasure is pain all its own.

Turn-ons

Being well-read (tried hard not to make a "well-RED" joke) / nerdy / clever/ smart - I've never much enjoyed submission from someone I can't genuinely connect with / admire / respect on some level. If it's just a fling/chat and we only care about getting off, then you can disregard the above request.

Well-established limits - Knowing how to say no makes this easier on all of us, knowing how to say no without stopping the fun parts is a very sexy skill. (Light system > safewords IMO, but one or the other is required)

Attractiveness - I maintain a reasonably healthy/athletic condition and would need the same from a partner.

About me:

Reasonably successful (Recently left a management position at a tech company, and started in real estate).

I work out. Grappling, calisthenics, etc... which means I can throw you around and hold you down as long as needed.

Nerdy. I read a good bit, play a handful of video games, and generally enjoy learning.

In the Greater Virginia area - I travel a bit, so the location is flexible.

Limits:

Felonies: Duh, don't do, say, or expect anything from me that could put us on a list.

Animals: Pet play is fine..., but I want to abuse you, not an actual animal.

Scat: Duh

Serious Injury: I want to hurt you, not maim you.

Doxing: Fun to talk about, less fun to deal with. Let's keep it between us.

Method of contact:

Reddit chats are ideal before we move to something more private. Please be prepared to talk about both kink and non-kink subjects and provide some level of photo verification (will reciprocate) so that we can ensure that we're on the same page on various kinds of attraction. Use the word "red" if you've read this far.

Happy hunting