So, as my title said. I've been out of the BDSM scene for a few years after being heavily involved in it throughout my early to mid twenties. During that time I got a lot of experience in a ton of different aspects of BDSM, and honestly learned that I loved almost all of it. Most of that experience that I garnered came from my time living in San Francisco along Folsom Street, so as you can probably guess there was plenty of leather and fun to be had.

What brings me to reddit: Reddit is where I have met subs in the past and had good experiences, and so am hoping to have those good experiences again.

Age: 30, I am open to anyone from ~20-38. However, I would say this is less about age and more about how we click as a Dom/Sub pair.

Looks: 6'0", 210lbs. Short black hair. Glasses. I currently wear my facial hair as a mustache, but change it regularly. White and relatively pale. Returning to be a gym rat at the moment to fix some time I've spent sedentary due to my work.

Location: I am in the greater Sacramento area in California and would be willing to travel a bit to nearby places in California to make a connection. I am also very often in the Bay Area.

Looking for: A Sub. At the moment I do not really want this to be a relationship outside of a Dom/Sub role. We could and should be friends of course, but I am not really looking to date at the moment.

Interests: I am a big film buff, I hike, I play TTRPGs (in a WHFRPG campaign at the moment) regularly, I am a gamer (currently playing through 40k: Rogue Trader), watch anime, play MTG, gardening, and a lot more. Generally, if we hit it off, it would be great if we could be friends and link up on some of these in addition to our more sexual experience.

Dom/Sub: I am a hard Dom and always have been. However I wish to make it clear that I have the experience to know the difference between being a 'Dom' and being a jerk.

Experience: I have quite a lot of experience as a Dom, with experience in rope play, longterm pet play, and more. I really do enjoy the idea of bringing my experience for a less experienced partner so they can learn the ropes.

Biggest Kinks: Forced Orgasm, Squirting, Mindbreak, Toys, Name Calling, Lingerie.

Other Kinks: Outdoors sex, Anal, Sloppy oral, Facials, Face Fucking, Creampies, Vibrators, Plugs, Dildos, Anal, Slut Walks, DD/lg, Discipline, Begging, Pet Play, Bondage, Collars, Leashes, Gags, Double Penetration, Group sex, Cumplay, Spanking, Bruising, Cock Worship, Name Calling, Exhibitionism, Blackmail Play, Pussy Torture, Pussy Slapping, Biting, Nipple Clamps, Choking.

Hard Limits: I do not enjoy ageplay, anything involving Scat or Diapers, Necro, Heavy Injury, Knife play

Partner Preferences: I am into a really wide range of girls if I am being honest, so it's hard to put something specific here. More than anything I am hoping you are open minded and I am willing to teach.

Other Important Things: I highly value the safety and comfort of my subs. This should be an environment where you are able to make yourself vulnerable, and the only way to do that is if you feel secure enough to do so.