Hi:) 22 F sub/little from South Africa. Looking for a Dom/daddy between the ages of 23-37. Someone who’s okay with getting to know each other on a call as well, preferably. Chances are good that Im coming to the US for an au pair program this year, Chicago specifically.

What Im looking for in a dom: Someone who’s a dom and a daddy. It’s important to me that you’re both. Because if it’s only one or the other, then it always feels like there’s something missing. MONOGAMOUS Sexual and non sexual, preferably someone who’s into domming in- and outside of the bedroom. Strict when it’s needed, caring when it’s needed. Someone who’s good with rules. And encouraging when it comes to littlespace. As I would like to do littlespace more often and at the moment I struggle to do it at any time except for when I’m sleepy. Edit: I’ve noticed that most of the men who’s messaged me on here were not big on being Daddies. Mostly doms. It’s something that’s very important to me. I need littlespace in order to get fully comfortable with someone. So please, please be both and have experience in both if you’re responding to this! Extra edit: please be both and don’t waste both of our times. I’m annoyed that I keep getting to know someone just to have to find out he’s only a dom and that I have to explain the basics of littlespace. It’s not something I’m willing to do again. So just spare us both the time and effort.

What I would like from the relationship:

I’m looking for something real and long term. I’m very okay with being online:) I’d just want my dom to be okay with potentially putting in the effort to meet up with me. And have a relationship in person. I am 100% okay with relocating for the right person. Actually I’d very much prefer that to over my dom relocating to me. As I adjust well to moving. I’m not looking to get sexual within the first 10 min of meeting. In the future I’d like to be a housewife/ 24/7 sub/little. If you’re reading this say panda bear in your message plsss:) And while I know it’s quite unrealistic. I feel like it’s still achievable if I meet a dom who wants the same thing. I however do not want children. But I will never take away the opportunity from someone who does want them. So please also don’t send a message if you do want them. We might end up potentially getting serious and then we’re screwed. Cause it’s not something I’m willing to negotiate on. Although, I am more than happy to explain why I don’t want children as a lot of people on here are just curious. I have no problem explaining as long as someone doesn’t try to convince me otherwise.

About me: I’m 5’7. Midsize body type, bordering chubby more than skinny. Blue eyes, gingerish hair. I’m non religious. I currently do not live alone. As my biggest aspiration is to become a housewife and honestly. That’s not the most profitable. 🥲 I don’t have a job either. It’s a gap year(s) for me rn which means it’s easier to do 24/7 if that’s something you’re into. My hobbies are arts. Anything creative, photography, painting, drawing, sculpting, digital art, BAKING, cooking, gardening. I don’t do roleplay or baby talk. Emphasis on I don’t do roleplay. If this is something you’d like, I wouldn’t recommend messaging me cause it’s a big no for me. And I mostly only go into littlespace the hour before bed. And it takes me a bit to get completely comfortable with nudes, but once I do, I’d send almost anything to accommodate your kinks (to a certain point of course)

If you like what you’ve read, feel free to send me a message on here:) if you have any questions, feel free to ask:). I e been very bad with answering messages before. So if you’ve sent me a message before, you’re more than welcome to do it again. Please in your message include your age and location! Once you message me. I do have a series of questions id like to ask. Let me know if I can ask them! Anyways:) enjoy your day and thank you for taking the time to read this.