I'm looking to find a possibly forever partner. I commit to my partners fully and am rather invested in my relationships.
A bit about me: I'm a mid six figure industry consultant. My job is currently based out of Boston, but I tend to travel every year to a new state. I'm a control freak. I'm a TPE pleasure dom. What does this mean? In exchange for your obedience, under carefully structured guidelines, I devote myself to bettering you in ways that you want and we agree upon. Some examples are fitness, college, and work skills.
What does slave training entail?
We'd have 6 months remote where you'll be facing growing levels of demand stemming from lifestyle changes and basic obedience training. My goal is not to humiliate or hurt, simply ensuring you are capable of performing assignments and consistent communication.
For a more detailed explanation, the following is a summary guideline:
Phase 1: Months 1-2:
Perform weekly tasks. These are menial tasks that may take up two hours of your week.
Expectations: Clear communication as we establish a mutual understanding. Demonstrate an ability to establish basic principles.
Goals: Work towards a formal agreement. While not legally binding, I feel contracts help clear any miscommunication. The last task of this phase would be an hour discussion about finalizing the contract and the details.
Phase 2: Months 3-4:
Performing daily tasks and working on correcting bad habits. Tasks may be up to a half hour per day. Refusal/inability to tasks would result in pre-determined punishment.
Expectations: Demonstrate a willingness to improve and better oneself. Demonstrate the ability to submit passively.
Goals: Determine areas that need work within both of us, and develop an articulable way to achieve these goals.
Phase 3: Months 5-6:
Performing daily tasks along with weekly/monthly obligations. Certain restrictions and expectations will be in place and followed strictly.
Expectations: Show the ability to both fully submit and understand commands. This phase will also go over the concept of self, as you may begin to lose a connection to it. We will talk openly in order to ensure your mental health is adaptable to these conditions.
Phase 4: Months 6-12
Two options present themself at this point. You'll have the option of either extending phase 3, and us meeting a few times in order to become more comfortably in person. Location depending for travel.
Or we can look towards relocation. If comfortable, you can move in with me, or I can get us two local apartments. Either way, you'd be expected to maintain a normal life, such that you work and the regular basics. All money earned would be put into savings for the event of a separation.
Phase 5:
Assuming we happily merge lifestyles in phase 4, you'd be expected to become a stay at home slave. Some clear conditions: You'd be free to do as you pleased when I wasn't home after you did your tasks for the day. You are a partner, not an object. I'd expect you to have hobbies such as the gym, maybe some social events, and other activities to maintain your mental wellbeing.
Background details: We'd periodically re-write the agreement to map our growing mentalities. At any point you'd be free to walk away.
Some optional conditions: Sex is not mandatory. While I won't permit sex with others, we do not need to have intercourse in this agreement. This is a matter of your comfort levels.
If you wish to maintain a part time job for personal fulfillment reasons, this is easily discussed.
Wow you've read a lot by this point. Some closing notes:
Please reach out to me directly via messages here. If you are concerned with my appearance, I have no issue showing myself in DMs. Obviously there would be a lot of communication to make this work.
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