I am a trans sub looking for a Dom!

I've found that for me, the mental part of kink and sex is the most important. The literal mindfuck. I find myself doing a lot of roleplays with dark themes to keep my mind involved and explore themes in extremes with a focus on the experience and thoughts. Maybe we can incorporate that general vibe into a dynamic and some physical aspects?

My friend recently said that I need something like the fake hand experiment (where you conditioned someone to see a fake hand as their own then smashed that hand to get a reaction) but with sex. Does that make sense? Does dark psychology factor into your kinks? If So let's create a world where we can do that together.

I want to know how you'd completely dominate someone's soul or mind. Some openers/ideas:

Molding me into the perfect sub. We can talk about protocols, conditioning, control, or modifications that would break and remake me.

I'll be fully open in that I have mental health struggles. Kink helps me explore being harmed, scared, etc in a supportive way. If I want to cut, be my doctor who applies leeches, taking my blood in a "better" way. How would you be my darkness? How would you hurt me and take over my pain?

Open to tasks, roleplay, sexting, or whatever scratches the itch. Feel free to look at my profile for inspiration. None of these kinks are hard requirements so please don't be scared off!

Kinks are numerous ranging from edge play like knives and choking, to soft things like cgl and petplay, things like cum worship and orgasm control, and fantasy stuff like size difference, all the way through, and snuff. I'm also open to things like incest and piss.

Limits: pregnancy/breeding, transphobia, body shaming, scat, age stuff.

PS tell me about your pets if you made it this far?