I have almost 4 years of experience in online bdsm dynamics, i've tried a lot of different approaches and found that what i ultimately like is control, in all forms.
I don't have specific kinks outside of that. Everything derives from it, so clothing control, orgasm control, sleep schedule and so on. If my sub likes something specific then i'll probably get around to satisfy her needs (i've had subs who were into bladder control, smartphone locking, chastity, prolonged anal plugging etc)
I am not cruel, i'm not a sadist. I do want power and i want my sub to listen to me without arguing, but i don't like using that power to make her feel worthless and humiliated, rather i want to guide her through decisions that are too hard for her to take, and make her do things for my own pleasure.
About me: 32, i'm a doctor and i live in Europe. I will go a bit more into detail in DMs but i won't reveal my identity. I have every intention to stay anonymous unless the dynamic lasts for a while and the possibility of a meetup becomes real; i do not seek that actively though, i prefer things to stay online.
About you: i don't care about age nor location. I do care about how your body looks, and i'm into fit/skinny types. You can be on the soft side but not too much. Pictures are required down the line, and a verification should be somewhat soon (let's say within the first couple days).
I hope this describes properly what and who i'm looking for. My chat is open for any questions.
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