Hey friends! You can call me M — Just a normal ish dude trying to find that special gal. Happy to make friends too, feel free to message me or send someone you know my way, who might be interested! I’ll try to keep this short for once (yeah right). 😉

I am a romantic at heart. I want to stimulate your brain and your heart just as much as your body.

I want to earn your trust and respect, to make you not just feel good or special, but comfortable and secure. I want to make you feel seen and heard and valued as a person, to be someone you can depend on to make you smile and feel good again after a difficult day. Someone you can vent and overshare to without being judged, and yet trusting and knowing that I will still be honest with you. A sounding board for your ideas, hopes, dreams, and….. desires.

I want to build a deep mental and emotional intimacy, until you are dripping with lust and desire and craving to serve and submit to me, if only because you know I have your best interests at heart and will reciprocate all of the same effort, energy, and attention that you give to me. But also because your pleasure has become synonymous with my pleasure.

I have a lot to give. I am looking for someone who wants to reciprocate. This isn’t meant to be a chore. But it’s also not a game. I’m not expecting or looking for some deeply romantic, exclusive, life-changing relationship. But just because it’s not “serious”, doesn’t mean it should be careless.

I want a genuine person to spend my free time with. I want to share memes, food porn, and flirty messages throughout the day, and then dive into our deepest dreams and kinkiest desires when we have more time at night.

In reality, I want to share a lot of things with you. I’ve heard lists are trending, and I quite like them so.

Highlights

• Mutual effort and reciprocation
  
• Eagerness to learn about each other
  
• Playful banter and flirty teasing
  
• Consistent communication & play time
  
• Mental intimacy: problem solving, deep conversations, open mindedness, discussing dreams & goals
  
• Emotional intimacy: affection, thoughtfulness, consideration
  
• Sexual intimacy: exploring kinks & fantasies, healthy and respectful D/S, satisfying our insatiable sex drives, lowkey obsession

Me

• I am 28, 6’2” tall, former competitive athlete, attractive: dark features, freckles, big red lips
  
• Patient, kind, confident, playful, generous, sweet, [emotionally] intelligent, passionate, nerdy, creative, curious, love learning and trying new things, very open minded and eager to grow and expand my perspective
• Down to earth, very good with words, communication, teaching, helping, peacemaking, and conflict management
• Business & entrepreneurially minded, strong work ethic, big ambition and imagination
• INFJ
• Hypersexual, very kinky
• Pleasure Daddy [soft] Dom
• I am experienced with online dynamics, and being a dominant

Hobbies

Swimming, working out, hiking / nature, playing some sports, traveling, dancing, snowboarding… reading, writing, drawing, baking, cooking, piano, coding, video games, board games, game design / worldbuilding, TTRPGs, movies / TV series / anime, etc.

Kinks

Oral, praise/worship, orgasm control/edging, overstimulation/gooning, dirty talk, dirty names, spanking, [mutual] masturbation, light pain, light choking, breeding, cumplay, sexting, semi public/risky play (aka covert exhibitionism), teasing, toys, tasks, corruption (to list a few)

Curious / Fantasy

CNC, sleep play, slave, freeuse, threesome, group, orgy, harem

Limits

Age regression, animals, urine, scat, diapers, rimming, blood, violence/abuse, cucking, femdom, etc.

You

• 22–35, give or take. Not super picky here, as long as it makes sense.

• Submissive. While I enjoy playful teasing, I prefer someone more service/pleasure oriented rather than a full on brat. I want to have fun with you, I don’t want to have to put you in your place every single time we talk.

• Ideally high sex drive, sexually open and curious to explore, able to adapt and be flexible, eager to learn about me and put in effort, and enjoy giving / receiving attention & affection

• Someone who resonates with some if not all of the following: genuine, warm-hearted, compassionate, sweet, thoughtful, intelligent, open minded, curious, passionate, enjoys talking about different things, puts in effort, has various goals, dreams, and hobbies, and is good with communication, texting, etc.

Basically, be a good, decent, human bean.

Dynamic

Despite the rather serious tone, I want something light hearted, pleasant, fun, playful, encouraging, productive, and even a bit sweet. * Online. Mostly text / voice memos. * Primarily sexual. This is the focus, that guides and governs our interaction and connection. But lots of non-sexual too. * Every dynamic looks a bit different. I want us to get to know each other and build it our way. * Setting a loose schedule for when we can chat/play. * Emotional, mental, sexual reciprocation * Verification required at some point, once comfortable. I have a simple but guaranteed method.

What I Am NOT Looking For

• married women
• drama
  
• dishonesty
  
• immaturity (nothing to do with age)
• ghosting
  
• marriage, romance, moving in together
• men / dick pics

Message Me

Send a Chat (or DM). Please include: * A bit about yourself * What you liked about my post * Why you think we might be a good match * Anything else you would like to share

Bonus points if you include a picture. I’ll reciprocate :)