Hi there!

I'm a polyamorous submissive Trans guy who presents a bit feminine-ly but still prefers he/him pronouns. I am pre-T and pre-OP so if that isn't your cup of tea then let me be transparent about that right off. Also in the interest of being transparent off the bat I am also working a lot on myself and my issues involving mental illness (Depression, Anxiety, BPD, Autism/ADHD, just to name some of the big hitters) through therapy and self improvement.

First I want to introduce Vanilla me. Among what I've already mentioned I am goth both in interests and style. I'm a bit curvy/plus-size due to PCOS and learning to love my body while also keeping myself healthy. I am polyamorous and partnered with one other partner who is my priority. She is also a submissive so I am looking for a dominant mainly for myself. One thing that may be a big hurdle for some to cross is I am demisexual, so I have to have a strong emotional connection first and foremost before I can be sexually attracted to someone. However I am also hyper-sexual so my libido is sky high, this is something I try to remain open about as both are major influences on my dating life. I am a major nerd as well! I love everything from Anime and cosplay, to DnD (Forever DM here lol), to Star Wars, video games and much, much more. I am also an open book so any questions you have feel free to ask away!

Now for Kinky me. I am a brat, masochist, pup, and have had experience as a dominant but prefer submission. I am wanting to explore pet space/little space more, however I haven't found someone that I feel comfortable enough to try that with. My favorite kinks are impact, degradation/praise, manhandling, CNC, overstimulation, sensory deprivation/play, anal, but there are many many more past these favorites. My hard limits are scat, abdl, pregnancy, vomit, bad smells/tastes, ignoring safewords, emotional manipulation, and permanent damage. I'm working on a list of soft limits still but as it stands that's the main limits I have.

What am I looking for? Ideally, someone between 23 and 40. Someone who is local to North or South Carolina; I am not far from the Charlotte area for context. I need someone who is kind and caring, understands the importance of aftercare, is understanding about the effects of mental and chronic illnesses on a person and their relationships, can be firm and rough when the moment is right, is attracted to me physically and vice versa (call me vain or shallow but I feel it can be an important part of chemistry in a relationship), and is interested in something long term and serious. Is this you?

So um yeah. I think that's all really. I would love to hear from you and chat! If you've read this far then send me a message with your favorite color! A heads up I work 60hrs a week Monday through Friday, mostly night shift, so if I'm slow to reply that's why! I hope you have a good day and if you have any questions feel free to ask I am an open book and would love to get to know you!