This ad is intended to be less intense than what you will find in my post history (pauses so you can go look 😊).

Maybe it's because I whipped my own thighs for over an hour, excited to see the markings I'd make on myself and didn't partake in any aftercare rituals.

Maybe because I've been torturing my own breasts, eager to feel the pain and add another rubber band to my already sore tits, and still, didn't seek the comfort of another.

Maybe it's because I've wanted to be degraded over and over again for the last few weeks, and though many are very willing to provide that, few, if any, will stick around to pick up the pieces.

Maybe it's because I'm not getting enough attention from my play partner. Maybe it's because I've played with my clit until it was sore. Maybe it's because I keep running through the batteries on my toys. Maybe it's because it's getting harder and harder to cum.

The fact is I'm completely fine.

But I do want someone to talk to. I'm sure I could write list after list of that perfect Daddy Dom, but the reality is that humans are humans, we aren't all perfect, and the fantasy in our minds will never compare to the reality. There are some needs however, that feel necessary to give this thing a proper try. Whatever this "thing" may be. Whatever we say it is.

I would love an online Daddy Dom that is:

• Consistent
• Communicative
• Intelligent
• Sadistic
• Gentle Mentor
• Available mostly during business hours Monday through Friday, Eastern Time Zone (CT and MT are OK too)
• Open and willing to work with my restrictions (I am partnered, and overbearing dynamics simply do not fit into my life).

The most important thing above all else, is a good connection. A chemistry that keeps me on my toes waiting for your next message. The capability to talk about anything that interests us. Kink or otherwise.

I am looking for a friend.

Yes. A friend. The foundation of most relationships I feel are based on friendship. Can we have a good time together? Do our energies intermingle well? Then we might just have the start of a wonderful foundation to a D/s dynamic. Friendships can last a month, maybe even a week, and sometimes more. The pressure of "Forever" is expertly removed and we can both breathe easy. A friend helps us live in the now.

What things can you start your first message to me about?

• Anything previously mentioned.
• Do you have an affinity for puzzle games?
• Are you involved in your local kink community? Do you remember your first event?
• Do you enjoy self improvement?
• Do you wish you could drop everything and travel the world?
• Is there a kink scene you've been planning or thinking about for a while? Where are you in the process of making it happen?