I really want to get to know you, I want to be friends as well as whatever else we become. I want to make you smile and laugh and tell you interesting stories... and have you do all the same.

Me:

• 57, Married, and Polyamorous
• I have been a Dom since I was 16
• I added Daddy to my repertoire when I was 40
• I am an engineer (software and electronics)
• I like to describe myself as avuncular
• I love conversation and getting to know you
• I am a flexible Dom, I adapt to your needs and kinks. I can be very gentle, or crazy rough
• I am looking for something longer term, not just a fling
• Some of my kinks (none of which are requirements):
  • Impact play (I am told I give a great spanking)
  • Giving orders and tasks, bondage
  • Various forms of sensation play
  • Giving anal
  • CNC
• Limits:
  • Scat
  • Blood and other fluids
  • Soft limits may come up as we explore

You:

• Are willing and happy to verify within the first 48 hours, this is not optional
• Understand that sharing pictures and videos (after you feel comfortable) is a part of this
• Are emotionally mature
• Like a good conversation as well as play
• Know your kinks, or can tell me what you want to explore
• Understand that communication is the core of BDSM
• Want to stand up for and advocate for your needs
• Tell me the name of your favorite song when you reply.

After all that, what can I say? I love to read and learn, I watch too much TV, and I love pop culture. I don't game as much as I like, but if you do I want to know everything! I love talking and conversation, and learning about what the people I care about know. I wrote a novel a while back, and if you look at my profile you can see I sometimes write BDSM erotica.

What are you waiting for, introduce yourself!

PS:To get a taste of what I can be like, here are a couple of lightly fictionalized versions of things I have done:

• Nice (MDom) (D/s) (Anal)
• 90% True (MDom) (Huml) (CNCish)