I loveee tasks and control, but have a tendency to want to go hard and fast, extreme kink and control straight away, and then get overwhelmed, burnt out, or frustrated very quickly, often causing me to lose libido and causing me to be unable to sustain chats long term.

Go slow instead, very little communication, maybe a task every day or so, minimal punishments for not following through. Something that fits seamlessly into my busy every day life. Then as I'm getting used to that and craving more, slowly increase the control; more tasks, changes to my routine or behaviours, changes to my porn or masturbation practices. I want your presence to be insidious, very slowly infiltrating my life so I don't realise I'm addicted until it's already too late. Take away my internalised shame and fear around lust and fundamentally change me.

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KINKS Pain, impact play, rough, edging (short-term), humiliation, degradation, praise, corruption, misgendering, detrans, CNC, somnophilia, pet play (puppy/cow/etc), lactation (I can produce small amounts of milk), hypno, bimbofication, dumbification, gooning, feminization, submission, power imbalance/power exchange, manipulation/gaslighting (?), intox, addiction, fisting/stretching, marks, toilet play, impreg fantasy, blackmail fantasy, etc, etc.

TOYS Various sizes of dildos and butt plugs, anal beads, hollow plug, Lovense dolce, hush, lapis, and lush (still works but damaged from cat biting it), rose suction vibrator, penis gag, leather paddle, various suction cups, lactation breast pump (single sided so I'm considering getting a double medical grade pump, but not sure if I'll use it enough to be worth the money), clamps, handcuffs, blindfold, sounding rods, enema bag, bulb, and syringe, tiger balm similar, sterile needles, rope, etc. Also willing to buy new toys.

ABOUT ME Ask for pics if you're interested! Transmasc/non-binary, been on T for 3 years, no surgeries, he/they. I work 5 days a week, and can have an intense/tight work and personal schedule, but I mainly work alone, driving around half the day so can check my phone a bit. I have ADHD, ASD, etc, etc.

I have a boyfriend (also transmasc) of 1 year, we live together with a housemate. He doesn't know I'm posting here, but he does know about another Reddit account I have where I post nudes. We're monogamous but not strictly/permanently, and have talked a lot about swinging/open relationship in the future. He's also pretty kinky, and we've tried some stuff and have also been to sex clubs, etc. We're both switches with a strong preference towards subbing.

Please DM or comment and give some info about yourself, your dom/communication style, ideas, etc! I don't think I'm super interested in pics/nudes from you, unless maybe if you're my type or if it's incorporated into kink, but feel free to send a pic if you want.