Hello there,

I’m Sven or at least that’s what I go by online. I’m a 24 year old guy from the Pasadena area in Southern California working on a degree in nursing, and I’m here looking for that special someone but also very much looking for friends. Before I continue I want to note that this is my first personals ad and while I really don’t know what I’m doing I’m trying to show some confidence and vulnerability.

Anyways, I have the ever so entertaining ADHD and autism combo which has over the years led me to have a wide variety of hobbies and interests. Currently I’m getting back into singing, though I still play video games, this year I’ve mostly been playing Tears of the Kingdom. I also have been keeping up with some anime and manga, I'm super into One Piece. There are also a lot of things I’d like to get back into like hiking, camping, swing dancing, and more. As far as interests I am prepared to provide a lot of random, probably useless information on a myriad of different topics. Everything from lizards to linguistics, from grappling hooks to Gintama, you get the picture.

When it comes to what I may bring to the table I have a fair few amount of skills though like my interests, the situational usefulness of my skills may vary. I’m pretty handy in general as far as troubleshooting and repairs go, it’s a real jack of all trades situation. Also I’m calm under pressure and have some solid first aid knowledge for people and pets. I am also a pretty good cook, if I do say so myself, I can smell my way around a spice cabinet and I can work my way through a lot so long as I have a recipe. I even won the Best Pie award at an official city event, I don’t even like pie and it was my second time baking pies ever. I’m also decently strong and sturdy, at 5’5” and over 200lbs I’m built like a classic LOTR dwarf which can certainly come in handy if you need someone to move furniture. Also I like to think of myself as funny too but I suppose that’s more up for interpretation. As far as the emotional side of things I like to think of myself as empathetic and caring. I am fiercely loyal to those I care about and I like to do everything I can to help them.

As far as kinks and all that jazz I am very new to everything. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship or even been on a date so I am definitely still learning. That said, currently my limits/ boundaries are going to be a lot of the scarier things like cbt, anything that will leave a mark really, gross stuff like scat, or things that make the relationship feel transactional like findom. As far as what I’m into well since I’m so new I’m still working out what I like in my fantasy vs what I like irl, so I will need time but I would be excited to explore. When it comes to what I want in a partner I find that many things are situational. Ideally I would want someone in my age range of the 20s, with similar more left leaning ideologies as me. Mostly things like physical appearance, religion, all that stuff isn’t such a big deal to me, I want to be compatible with someone emotionally first and then mentally before physically. I should mention that I can be a bit clingy and I do need some reassurance especially but I of course am respectful of any boundaries and avoid trying to make people uncomfortable. Ideally I’m looking for a long term, in person, monogamous relationship with that special someone who somewhere down the line I can start a family with but like I said at the beginning I also very much want to make new friends and experience new things too. In fact, I had always imagined that my future partner in crime would know me first as a friend. I should note that while I would much prefer people nearby willing to hangout in person, I am also happy to start online, especially with friends I don’t mind being online.

Well I’ve rambled on for far too long so I suppose send me a message and/or reply to this if you're interested. I’m going to link my introduction post (here) to potentially fill in any missing info and to give a sneak peek at my voice. (Also if you do decide to message me start by telling me your favorite animal, you know, to weed out bots)