Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my ad. I'm a 28 year old bisexual submissive male out of Cleveland, Ohio, and I've been on the hunt for a Domme for some time. My pronouns are he/him. I've had a number of online connections, but many of them didn't work out for various reasons.

I'm seeking an online-first dynamic, with the intention to be long-term. I tend not to establish adequate connection to properly submit in short-term dynamics (which I define as a month or less), and it leaves me feeling unfulfilled. I am seeking someone who I can connect deeply with, someone with whom I can have a fulfilling conversation and be vulnerable, as those are important to me.

Physically, my style is relaxed and casual, but clean. I'm about 5'9", and a touch over 200 lbs. I could use to lose some weight, but I'm overall happy with my appearance. Slightly shaggy light brown hair, hazel eyes, short beard. I'm not married to the beard, it's an experiment right now.

My interests and hobbies generally involve technology. I work in the tech field, and have the latitude to work remotely rather frequently, however I find that compartmentalizing work into an office can help me be able to turn work-brain off at night, so I opt to work in our local office, which is conveniently a few minutes up the street from my home. At home, I enjoy playing video games, working on technology projects, and partaking in beer tastings and trying new cocktails. I've recently begun experimenting with non-alcoholic cocktails and I'm amazed at how good some of them can be. I am fine with people partaking in recreational drugs, as long as they know their limits. However, given the choice, I'd prefer that a potential partner be an occasional, recreational "celebratory" user, rather than a habitual user. I'm not a user of any recreational drugs other than alcohol, and my drinking is occasional. Most weeks, I average 3 drinks or fewer.

My love languages are physical touch and quality time. My mind can be racing at a million miles an hour, and just having my head in someone's lap who cares about me (in the most platonic way possible) with them scratching my head, I will likely be calmed down and very possibly asleep within 5 minutes. Quality time is important to me as well. Please place the word "banana" in your response so I know you've read the entire ad. Spending time with someone I care for, and getting to share our day, cuddle, and just relax and chat about whatever is on our minds, even if it's nothing we'll remember in an hour.

Kink-wise, I am fairly versatile, but the vast majority of my interests revolve around power dynamics and such. Full disclosure, I have identified as a switch in the past, and have some experience as a dom, I do not actively identify as one any longer. My interest in living on that side of the slash has only been lit up a couple of times in the past couple of years. Largely, my kinks tend to be: relationship dynamics, punishment, denial, behavior modification, chastity, service submission, chastity, pegging, bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation and overall vulnerability.

I have a large number of kinks that I have written about in the past, which I am willing to make available to any potential partners, but the easiest way to get into my head is to offer a unique and interesting power exchange dynamic. I very strongly desire to have my next relationship be built on a foundation of power imbalance. I prefer a more gentle style of dominance on a day-to-day basis, but with the understanding that one's authority can be enforced by power if need be.

Ideally, you would be somewhere in the range of 25-40, someone who knows what they want out of life, and accepting of someone who is queer. Someone who is confident in their body, regardless of what type it is.

I will disclose currently that I am in the midst of recovering from a hospital visit, and am at home on bedrest for a couple of weeks. My availability may be sporadic for the next few weeks, but when I am available, I would love to spend that time getting to know you. Additionally, I struggle with mental health issues, although I am in the process of dealing with that. The aforementioned hospital visit is not related to my mental health.

Looking forward to hearing from you.