Hey all, I am a 29 year old Male looking for a submissive. I am currently looking for an online BDSM relationship but may be open to meets in the future if we connect well. I have been in the BDSM community for a really long time now, and have had quite a bit of experience.
I wouldn't say I want a typical D/s relationship. While I like to be in control and dominant, I am also caring, kind, and understanding. I've found that I like showering my partner with affection and care outside the D/s play. I like taking care of her, complimenting her, and just being there for her. I also want to get to know you more outside of the D/s dynamic as it helps me in building a better bond and dominating you better. I want you to come to me first with any problem you have, want you to tell me about your day, your guilty pleasures, want to hear the song that you listen to on repeat again and again, want to celebrate with you when you nail a presentation at work, want to hear what your fears are and what brings you joy, want to hear your thoughts when you lay under the stars looking at them, I want someone who will fully open up to me, albeit slowly. I will in no way rush you or force you to but I want someone whole and vulnerable, just like me. D/s for me is not just about sex. It's also about improving you and me in other aspects of life. It is about pushing us to be better in life and every possible area of it.
Kink wise Im into many things which we can discuss privately but some of them are spankings, tasks and punishments, body writing, name calling, orgasm control, and well like I said many more. Not all of our kinks have to match obviously but it would be great if some did. Limits include scat, gore, vomit, and anything illegal basically.
Communication is something which is really important to me, so you know, don't shy away from communicating your needs at all. I'll be very open and communicate my needs clearly to you, and I expect you to do the same.
On the more personal side, I have done my studies in Business and Entrepreneurship, and handle my own Business. I would say I am pretty sarcastic and funny, and love to make people laugh. I also am kind of a nerd in that I love reading lots and lots of books/mangas, playing board games, love gaming, watching movies and animes, and listening to music and what have you. I can hold up a conversation very well, and can talk about a plethora of topics, but if there is any topic I cannot, I always am open to learning more about new things. There is nothing sexier than a smart, intelligent woman after all. I also like cooking and can cook a great meal. Also used to draw a lot but haven't in some time, maybe you can by my muse and inspire me again ;)
We can talk more to gauge if we're compatible with each other, and If you have any other questions or doubts, don't hesitate to ask. Hope to hear from you soon, cheers!
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